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  1. JaySaysYes
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    JaySaysYes Level-4 Sarcasm Master, PhD in Google, Ace Pedant.

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    I'm so horny and I want an erection and orgasm so badly but she says no. It's been 46 days since being unlocked and 72 days since last orgasm.

    Fuuuuuuuccccccckkkkkkk.

    I'm fine, it's all fine. haha

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    How is your day progressing?
     
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    For me, I'm locked 24x7, it's been 68 days since my last orgasm, and about 60 days since my last erection (the only time she's unlocked me to tease my cock directly). She teases me mercilessly almost daily playing with my nipples, balls and other body parts. I'm so horny that she can touch me anywhere and I start to fill my cage.
     
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    keep going...
     
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    But how long has it been since your last sexual and/or intimate encounter? If you are not involved in any of this, I truly feel bad for you... not being involved isn't very much fun at all. If this is the case maybe you can let her know you would like to be more involved.
     
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    No need. We talk and have very open conversations all the time.

    I am just expressing myself, perhaps others might find it amusing and/or inspiring.

    We fool around at least every weekend, sometimes what feels like endlessly, but she really wants to do this long lock thing so I am (hopefully) just over half way through.

    If I didn't like it then I'd be in the garage and the cage would be off in 2 mins, but that would ruin our fun sex games.

    It's fun, but maddeningly frustrating. I am lead to believe, and based on my past experience, that it will mostly pass in a few weeks time.

    If nothing else I can serve as warning to others haha :p
     
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    I wish I’d taken the “be careful what you wish” for comments more seriously!
    After a few failed attempts at chastity and a few more hopeful ones, decided this time to really go to town and explain the real benefits to it. She always made unlocking too easy for me, and allowed too much fun so there wasn’t a real benefit.
    So after being locked this time I said I wanted it to be more permanent. After showing some information on the brain chemistry to her she responded with this response. The next morning she explained she was serious and asked if it would actually do any damage to me. She said if it takes 10 days for me to get back up to speed that’s a third of her time wasted. I couldn’t really disagree it was the point I was making…

    So here I am. Locked up for now just 10 days wondering when I’ll next be allowed to orgasm! She’s already told me she doesn’t enjoy sex if I don’t cum so that might not be happening again. She has however taken to the teasing aspect of all this like a duck to water.

    In 36 days I’ll let you know if I’m faring any better. What did we get ourselves into!!
     

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    After some time without orgasm.. one might question his own sexuality and if he is lesser of a man.. i mean.. impotence and lack of libido will creep in eventually but what if it happens earlier by force or choice.. not nature. I never thought be a monk so early in life.. but monks dont get to lick pussy.. do they..?
     
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    it has not even been close to that long for me. I am between 10-20 days all the time and then starting over.
    This time I think my KH is going to push it further.
    But it’s not even the length of lockup that is making it difficult for me.
    It’s the endless teasing and denial that she is getting so good at.
    I was unlocked just yesterday for games. She was riding me for what seemed like hours (probably was 10 minutes) under threat of punishment if I came.
    Then, to go back in the cage after that….my balls are so big and heavy and I just want to explode.
    It’s torture, but it’s such good torture
     
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    So the evening of my last post on here my wife decided we’d try something a little new. After I’d spent an hour massaging her and ensuring her satisfaction… she gave me a bj. 5 seconds ish. Stopped. 6 or so seconds… stopped. At 8 seconds she stopped and after a few seconds she’d given her first truly ruined orgasm.
    I felt absolutely no pleasure from ejaculating. Just a good level of relief. I was a little off my usual domestic game for a day.

    Does this count? If so I don’t think I’m going to make 70 odd days without an orgasm.
    After I joked she’d taken it a little easy in me letting cum. Obviously this pissed her off.
    Today in the middle of a posh cafe she plainly tells me “this is the only sausage I’ll be having now as we’ve both decided you won’t be cumming again”.

    Fuck I love my wife!!
     
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    subhubandy CFnm loving sub hubby

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    I have long thought the following schedule is good starting point for submissive men.

    One week for every decade of age... so three weeks for you...
     
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    So 5 1/2 weeks for you.
     
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    My Mistress and I recently finished a 2 month 23/7 lockup with almost daily PIV sex and only 2 ruined orgasms. It was intense and really brought out my fem side. Now I’m back in my HT nub 23/7 so we will see how long this time.
     
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    Lori, the device maker and a few others I’ve seen suggest there should be a long break-in period 90-120 days, with the count starting from zero if the sub complains.

    My wife’s approach was much simpler - i could cum when She told me to, and that was it.
     
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    That is a good reference point ... very accurate ... just don't let the wives know :)
     
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    Littleguy3, I would say five weeks until 60 but excuse me for splitting hairs.
    andy
     
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    I’ve done 12 weeks, luckily I’m not 120 though!
     
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    I’ve seen this recommendation.
    I don’t think most women could pull that off without prior experience
    But if they can they’ll be reaping the benefits
     
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    90 days seems an eternity, 35 is my longest period of no orgasm (although to be fair, when it was allowed, I was sort of disappointed that I did)
     
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    I love my wife to tell me ...."you're never going to cum inside me or fuck me ever again"....and she means it, over 12 months now with no PIV
     
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    I don’t know, I’m still in the honeymoon stage with this. I think at some stage I’m going to look back and regret it. She’s been clear that she doesn’t want me to cum, she won’t have PIV sex without me climaxing and she is saving that for special occasions. The way she’s grown into this recently I’m concerned she genuinely isn’t even going to be bothered on those occasions at all!

    It’s exciting, but also makes me a little anxious. Maybe after 12 months I’ll forget how good it was and won’t have anything by to worry about!
     
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    Which special occasions?

    I have suggested to my vanilla wife that I need nevrr come unless she feels like it, but I'd find our 3 anniversaries the "right" time for a full celebration with PIV...for the first time we met, first fuck, and our marriage.

    But those dates are all within may to august...so then from august to may??? That's about 250 days....

    In reality when she desires me she wants PIV and gets off making me grunt and gush inside her. And her desire occurs pretty randomly, about once every 2-3 months. I don't think she really plans it. When she's feeling hot she just goes for it.

    So Ive tried to convince her that keeping me locked is by far the best way to ensure I'm loaded for her at any time she chooses! We're still working this out.
     
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    Oh gosh, this was sometime ago. Things evolved. We started out with me suggesting once a month for an orgasm. Maybe once a week ruin. That seemed a nice fun chastity game.
    Then after research it became special occasions. She didn’t really say what; but not my birthday only hers as she didn’t want to miss out, too much going on at Xmas so not that…
    But that was before she researched whether I actually needed to ejaculate. Turns out medically I don’t have to… so it’s not going to happen. That’s the official line. Whether she’s nicer than that is another matter.
    Today, she did mention she has a number in her head for when I’ll be allowed to again.. but not to expect to enjoy it.

    My advice. Don’t ever let them take control :eek:
     
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    I’m only a little over 48 hours in. Not extreme for a lot of y’all, but my longest ever so far. I’m working up to her newly stated goal of 24/7 6 days a week.

    there’s as much truth to “don’t ever let them take control” as there is “careful what you wish for”.

    however, as I told her last night. I’m all in because I know if we stopped, within 2 weeks I’d be jacking off fantasizing about being exactly where I am!
     
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    o_Oo_O
    Haha. I was joking. Letting my wife have full control has allowed our relationship to change and improve in ways I’d never realised were a problem before…
    But handing over control is handing over control, you may not get what you wish for. The 250 days in which @borbulls1961 stated could become a reality. He was opposed to this. But why wouldn’t she go that far?
    What happens when she agrees 24/7 6 days a week, but on the 7th day she’s not feeling it… and then that becomes 2 weeks… 3 weeks. Maybe you won’t orgasm for over a month…

    At that point is not being careful what you wished for, it’s more a decision:
    Do you allow her to control the situation you actually lead before?
    Or do you continue to “top from the bottom” (that’s apparently what it’s called these days o_O) and try and regain control?
     
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