Having just joined and respecting the admonition don't be a lurker, I post a short note about me. In my 50s, I had an experience with a CB-3000 several years ago, but the key holder and I didnt see eye-to-eye on the limits and we went our seperate ways. Several years later, I met and married a wonderful woman with an open mind. After disclosing my desire for enforced chastity, we ordered the CB-6000 and the book: Male Chastity, A Guide for Keyholders by Lucy Fairbourne. They both arrived on the same day and after some awkward moments, I was able to slip into the device and hear the click as my wife/key holder closed the lock. We read the book together and spoke openly about the device. That evening, she shaved me to her specifications and I became aware of a subtle shift in the power arraignment in our relationship. Today she has me wearing it all day I work from home and we will see where it goes from here. I can say at this point it is comfortable and my thoughts often turn to her during the day.