One of my last posts before Mandy returns this evening. The use of it/that vice he to describe me or address me has become a feature in our dynamic. As being relegated further to object/asset status rather than a person. Not arousing for me, but adds to pushing me further into deep submissiveness. This may not chime well with others here and it is our thing. Is it yours?
Your last words say it all "it is our thing " it doesn't really matter if other people don't like what you call each other it's your thing. I call my wife Honey or Deer. Or is that Dear. When I call her Dear she sometimes calls me Moose. I think it's very common in a relationship to call your partner something other than their name. A lot of people are only know by nick names What ever makes your juices flow
My wife / KH will call me bitch or chick dependent on mood, alone I will say madame with company I will say Dear or Love. Nobody has said anything when I am referred to as chick 'yet'
"IT" is also O/our thing Mistress Mandy. Never has Mistress Sage referred to Her slave by its real name nor is it permitted to do so either. Either Mistress and Her slave only use the name She presently enjoys using for it or it is simply an it. Right now Mistress is enjoying calling Her it Her "slut".
i am always call jemima or jems i am and then i know its me thats wanted for something if somebody sayed it i wudnt know it was me that they wanted.
interesting discussion, Lately i'm called butt slut or bitch boy. In public, She just gives me "the look" when she wants something and i refer to Her as Madam or Ma'am. Being a full time house hubby, usually dressed in panties and tee shirt, her favorite term for me, lovingly, is bitch.
Well, jack's little thread has garnered some interesting replies. I truly believe it cements a solid D/s dynamic when the male asset has been dehumanised a little. For those wive's/gfs etc, this will really help you discover your hidden Domme. She is in there, but often prevented from rising up due to sentiment and emotional connection with your male asset. Try it out for size ladies, you may surprise yourselves.
As with many other things whether or not whatever suits your relationship depends quite a lot on the dynamic of that relationship. I would not respond well to that type of thing. I would not get into a relationship of that type nor stay in one that developed that way.. But thats me and as always its each to their own.
Deep inside every woman there's a Domme waiting to awaken and released. Depending on the relationship this awakening can be retarded, not occurring, or be accelerated, depending on circunstances, but always as an act of love the success is guaranteed if the male on a vanilla relationship can lovingly show her the way.