Not new or even new to here but…new all the same.

So we’ve actually played around with chastity for maybe 10 years or so off and on. She’s not opposed to it but doesn’t care one way or the other. I on the other hand would prefer her to test my limits and push me but I take what I can get. We started as most do with plastic cages and then I fairly quickly realized a custom metal cage would be best. Bought a MM Jailbird and that was the end of my cage buying. I just had them shorten it in the last year and it’s even more comfortable/concealable and feels like I could wear it indefinitely. My longest lock up prior to shortening it was 33 days and I will say I cheated many times with a hitachi magic wand (she doesn’t know about that) during it so I don’t really count it. She just recently had her IUD taken out and wants me to get a vasectomy which I will but….she said I have to stay locked until I at least make the first appointment. I’ve been locked (without cheating with the wand) for 10 days now and am thinking I want to push this exercise and see if she might become more comfortable with controlling my releases If I make sure she’s taken care of while still remaining locked.

When I first joined CM I wasn’t active at all and was just here to learn what I could. Maybe I’m wrong but I didn’t think there was a whole lot of content that was real back then. Just mostly a bunch of horny guys posting fiction. It seems like the community has grown and just from what I’ve seen in a very short time this afternoon….it’s changed.

Anyway….that’s my story and I’m back to hopefully share what I’ve learned and learn from you all.