So we’ve actually played around with chastity for maybe 10 years or so off and on. She’s not opposed to it but doesn’t care one way or the other. I on the other hand would prefer her to test my limits and push me but I take what I can get. We started as most do with plastic cages and then I fairly quickly realized a custom metal cage would be best. Bought a MM Jailbird and that was the end of my cage buying. I just had them shorten it in the last year and it’s even more comfortable/concealable and feels like I could wear it indefinitely. My longest lock up prior to shortening it was 33 days and I will say I cheated many times with a hitachi magic wand (she doesn’t know about that) during it so I don’t really count it. She just recently had her IUD taken out and wants me to get a vasectomy which I will but….she said I have to stay locked until I at least make the first appointment. I’ve been locked (without cheating with the wand) for 10 days now and am thinking I want to push this exercise and see if she might become more comfortable with controlling my releases If I make sure she’s taken care of while still remaining locked. When I first joined CM I wasn’t active at all and was just here to learn what I could. Maybe I’m wrong but I didn’t think there was a whole lot of content that was real back then. Just mostly a bunch of horny guys posting fiction. It seems like the community has grown and just from what I’ve seen in a very short time this afternoon….it’s changed. Anyway….that’s my story and I’m back to hopefully share what I’ve learned and learn from you all.