Not looking for denial, just want my wife to take control?

I have a similar situation to you. My wife and I were always very sexual till she had ovarian cancer 3 years ago. Chastity play was always something we did but it was never long term. It would be a few days then sex and repeat. Meanwhile she would tease me and Masbate. After surgeries and treatments she has no sex drive whatsoever and I understand. I’m not upset by the sudden change however I was always horney and I began to masterbate and look at porn. However that bothered her partly because she was not interested in sex and I was. She felt bad about it. I asked her if she would be willing to do a more long term chastity situation. Essentially she can chooses to have sex whenever she wants and I will be locked the rest of the time. Kinda filling my kinky need while not forcing her to be super engaged with it. There not much teasing or talk about it. I never bring it up to her other than to tell her I’m going to unlock for cleaning. We keep the key in the closet suspended from the shelves with a plastic numbered tag and I keep one inside a pill bottle secured by a plastic numbered tag. One stays in my car for emergencies. We keep a log and she is free to check whenever she wants. So far it’s working out ok she doesn’t feel like she has to interact with my kink more than she wants and I have some kinky play with out making her feel bad or worse cheating.

 

That sounds like a workable solution to a difficult situation.

 

So far so good but we have not been doing it to long yet

 

We haven’t been practicing chastity that long, but if my wife / KH / Mistress is the example, denial seems to be the natural tendency. Pretty sure I had never gone longer than 3 days without going before we started....she told me today I wouldn’t be allowed to go for 2 more weeks. I swear my eyes are already stark white with sperm...lol. She on the other hand, orgasms as often as she requires...which is generally daily.

 

Hope it all works out for you,