Not letting my husband see me naked

I find myself wanting to massage my wife’s feet, butt and legs more with lotion, when locked :/ I usually don’t touch other areas unless invited to do so.

 

Would not work to us. Yes, beeing nude in general as said does not have much to do with sex. And having a lot of mixed, saunas in germany I think we should know that better than some other folk.
Beeing always clothed in front of your partner though would seem quite strange and unnatural. We like beeing close and feeling close to each other and this might feel like some barrier between us.

Apart from that groping is not limited to when the partner is nude. In fact at times her walking around home in one of my far too large sweater is way more sexy than any lingeries could be. And not to take the wrong impression: She likes beeing groped as much as dokng a good part of groping herself. And not beeing in the right mood for that kind of attention she woudt let me know for sure.

 

Different strokes for different folks.

And apparently, some folks don't get any stroking and are happy with that

 

Well said! FLR you make the rules! I would love for my wife to be like this. Your husband is a lucky man to have you listen at first to his kink and partake in it.

 

My fiancee and I have been together for 9 years. She has been in control for almost all of it. Most of her rules are not driven by my behavior so much as they are with making our relationship more consistent and coherent. She declares certain actions inappropriate. If I am not allowed to make any financial decisions, it is obviously inappropriate for me to order at a restaurant. If I am not allowed to have sex, touching her stomach or her legs above her knees is inappropriate. From there, the impropriety of seeing her naked follows naturally. She tells me that if something is a grown-up pleasure I should assume it is not for me.

 

Could be fun to handcuff him And order him to kneel facing the wall while you change. Then he’d know when it’s happening but never be able to see anything but a blank wall in front if his face.

 

I feel, being caged and getting glimpse of parts of my wife burns an image in my mind. Makes me think about her body all day. It’s amazing the effect it has on a locked penis Men, I feel are image driven.

 

We are wired to be aroused by visual stimuli

That's why so few women get addicted to porn

A lot of men try and turn on women the way men are

Women also fail thinking men would be better off trying to get aroused in a way that works for women

The romance novels and porn stars that make a lot of money, do so by opposite means but the same outcome

Telling a man he can't see any nudity is no different than refusing a woman foreplay

 

I guess we are totally different than most. Because I’m caged I find it very erotic. my wife walking around nude or semi nude. I can’t do anything about it. No erections no sex just denial. She purposely walks around in just panties to tease me. We also take showers together on the weekends. I know better than to ask for sex, it’s on her terms. But I love seeing her like that knowing I can’t have it. In fact, I change her in her pajamas every night for bed. Again, being able to see her semi nude or nude, and not been able to have it and not be able to have an erection just enforces her power over me.

 

I doubt I could handle it if my Wife didn’t allow me seeing her naked or touching, etc.
We’re out of clothes as often as possible, if we have the house to ourselves, it’s play time. Just lots of orgasms for her and almost none for me.

 

Lol

 

I agree - it wouldn't be a deal breaker, but it would be a huge change to our relationship. Every day when she gets home we go to the bedroom to change and talk about our day as we're changing. I sit on the bed, she takes her bra off, and I get some time with her breasts, while she kisses my head and we hug. That's our guaranteed time to ourselves. After that it's the chaos of kids, dinner, getting ready for the next day, and then she's sleeping on the couch by bedtime. Sometimes it's just a relief to be in my happy place at the end of the rough day, sometimes it's more sexual, but I couldn't imagine not having that time each day.

 

I'm not sure wearing a metal cage in a sauna would be a good idea.

Goodness gracious great balls of fire !