Noticed a lull in my subbie mode lately, and the worst part is that she noticed it too. She even asked if I had been touching it myself (been unlocked while a blister spot heals). I don't know, I had a few days of really horny, but not really very subbie. Is it cause I'm not caged up? Is it because she hasn't asked or told me to do the maid thing in awhile and I kind of just let it go to the wayside? Is it that I have been in boy mode so long that I don't feel submissive? I don't know. She gives me plenty opportunity to serve her orally, and foot rubs still occur, but not in a feverish way like I cannot wait. We did have sex last week and I got to finish, but that was awhile ago and it's not like I'm not horny it's just that I don't feel this urge to please as strongly as I normally do. The closest I came to being that way was when she was playfully teasing me that she was going to smack my balls. I turned away and hugged her, both of us laughing and her giving one more attempt at a swat before I submitted that I was sorry and we went upstairs. It's an odd feeling. I obviously didn't want her to smack my balls, but I did want her to take control and do it if she wanted to...tie me up if she had to. That was the closest I've felt to subbie in awhile. I don't know what it is. Just this morning (still uncaged) she grabbed my cock and started stroking a bit. The sudden pleasure down there startled me, I didn't even get hard right away. @Mistress Amanté means the world to me and I want to be the doting partner she wants and deserves.