Not a fantasy any longer.

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    *Just a quick note....If you are expecting some sort of fictional erotica, that is not what this is. I am just a normal guy and thought I had a masturbation addiction.....well I do, I mean I did.

    4 years ago I was sitting at McCarran airport in Las Vegas waiting to board a plane to Ft. Lauderdale, it was delayed 6 hours. I decided to have a smoke in the airport casino area and started browsing my favorite erotic story site. I read a story about a guy who's wife locked him in a chastity device called a CB-6000. I googled the device and instantly was hooked when I saw it. I still am not sure what the allure was but I couldn't stop researching devices and learning all I could about the subject.

    After 2 long days traveling and working (I am an entertainer and quite often have to travel) I figured I would give it a shot and tell my wife about my new found kink. Now she is what you may call vanilla, she also has had some abuse in her past and that causes her to be a little introverted about sex. So I was worried that she may be freaked out a bit so I decided to simply ask her to help me stop masturbating. She of course asked what she could do to help me and I handed her a key and then proceeded to show her what the key opened. She was very surprisingly intrigued and agreed to hold the key for me. This was very exciting but I quickly learned I could pull out when she wasn't around and masturbate. I tried different inserts that prevented pull out but nothing worked. I lost interest.

    1 year later I felt the desire to try it again, this time I suggested I get pierced so it can be more "real". Again under the pretense that I thought it would help me not masturbate. So we went and got the piercing done and then ordered a PA-5000. This was much better but the tube was too small in circumference, so after about 1 month the PA 5000 came off. I figured I it wouldn't work because no device I found fit and custom devices are quite expensive.

    I often fantasized about having a device that could be worn 24/7 and be comfortable. Sorry guys I am not into pain and being awakened every morning when I get wood, some of you are, that's fine with me but not for me. 6 months ago I ordered a custom 3D printed device and it fits. I am finally able to wear it 24/7.

    So this brings me up to the past few months. I showed my wife the device after it arrived and we gave it a test a run for a few days. I found that the device is a bit big when I am flaccid so I need to wear underwear that keeps the cage close to my body so it does not pull on the piercing too much. I found that jock straps and briefs are all that I can wear, and of course the few pairs of panties that have pouches built into the front that I really like.

    I have been locked up now for 2 months. She and I are starting to have fun with it. I find that I am more attentive to her needs and desires. I spend way more time working on projects around the house and doing chores and much less time, actually none at all, spent jerking myself off. I get much more accomplished and am much happier because she is also happier. Ever hear "Happy wife, happy life" This is what I have been experiencing for what feels like the first time.

    I have been allowed a few releases over the past couple of months. One time while getting ready for work she unlocked me, handed me a bottle of silicone lube and told me I had until she was finished getting ready to get myself off. Another time she put a vibrator on my cage and gave me a ruined orgasm. Yesterday was the first PIV sex I have had in 2 months, it felt amazing. She told me last night that her plan is to unlock me on New Years Eve and I get to explode at Midnight. I am already getting excited at the thought.

    I must say that so far this has been fun and quite the experience. I am hoping to use this forum and the folks on here as a sounding board for ideas and suggestions.
     
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    Last night when LOVE came home from work I had the house cleaned from our Christmas party and I was relaxing. I got up to take a shower before bed and she offered to take off the cage for cleaning. Now here lies the problem, the new cage has a lock that is a removable cylinder lock (see photo). She could not get the lock to turn, at first I thought she was joking but the realized it was stuck. I quickly went to the garage and grabbed some WD-40 thinking that there may have been some corrosion in the lock. After about 5 min of playing with the lock it opened. Once opened and removed I played with the lock and it feels like something is a bit off in the lock and it sticks a bit.
    LOVE asked me if I used a vibrator that may have loosened something or if I got anything sticky inside of it. Now it just so happens that I did use a vibrator on it.
    Has anyone else had something like this happen, and where can I purchase backup locks just in case we ever need to replace this one. Actually the device is going back on in a few minutes and I want to make sure that I can have a new lock here by NYE when this comes off again.
     

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    great intro. Yeah that is called the magic locker. You can google magic locker chastity and find some sources to buy from. Or you could contact the place you purchased your device from. Those locks can get corroded from daily showers and such so probably a good idea to use something like wd 40 on it once in a while
     
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    Thank you @ineverknew I just ordered a replacement lock on amazon prime for $6 with free shipping. It will be here just in time for NYE. Thank you
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    I have recently tried to adjust my lock by grinding the sharp edges off. Well I went too far and little cylinders popped out. I had several brass locks from other devices that were e same thing so I just switched it out, but I had made the key into her pendant and now had to redo it.

    I ended up being able to get the old key off and customize the new key, but was worried.
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    Great intro, Early days yet,but has prospects.
     
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    Mash2214 Locked today, tomorrow, forever

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    At least you have the skill and talent to make a new pendant. Sharp edges are never a good thing.
     
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    Mash2214 Locked today, tomorrow, forever

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    Your story is very enlightening. To find the perfect cage isn't always easy. The best cage on the market is still your submissive mind. It's a difficult cage to build but once it's built its almost impossible to break.
     
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    @Mash2214 You are %100 correct. This is all mental for me, even though I am pierced and have a cage that is quite secure, I could remove it by walking into my workshop and cutting it off. I think of the cage as a symbol of my devotion to her. Just like a wedding ring says I'm taken to everyone else, this says I'm yours only to her.

    So the past few days have been busy, but yesterday we found time for her to lay on the couch while I worked some magic with my tongue. She of course new the entire time that she was not obligated to reciprocate in any way and I think that relaxes her more, especially when we both have limited time due to work a lot lately. She still is finding these little moments to playfully slap my bottom, especially when I am cleaning the kitchen for some odd reason :)

    LOVE noticed the area around my piercing was getting a little irritated from the cage, so she took it off for a night. The following day there was less irritation but still she decided it needed another day, so she left me unlocked when she went to work. I didn't even think of touching it that night, like @Mash2214 said, "the best cage on the market is still your submissive mind."

    Due to the irritation on the head of my penis from the piercing, we began reading about it and learned that an ampallang piercing is less likely to migrate. I almost want to post a photo of my piercing to see if anyone else has experienced what I am experiencing. (I can do that right?)

    Anyway, happy new year to you all, I am going to get to do a count down release and I must come when she reaches "Happy New Year"! I am really looking forward to that. In the mean time I am going to be doing things that please her like taking down the Christmas decorations and cleaning the garage.
     
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    Yes you can post a picture. I do t have a piercing but someone will be able to help you. Have a Happy Caged New Year
     
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    LOVE and I have been working very hard the past few weeks. I work from home running a business and she is now an executive for a major corporation. I have been working extra hard to keep the house hold running smoothly, dogs looked after, cooking, cleaning, etc. The house is looking better than it ever has before. She is very appreciative of my efforts and is really enjoying keeping me locked up.

    The new cage that I have been wearing is pulling a little too hard on my PA sometimes. So we talked about getting ampallang piercing soon..
     
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