Non PA-ers: How do you deal with possibility to pullout?

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    We're finally both into chastity and that excites me, but also both we are not open for a PA. This makes it possible to pullout.. Unless....?

    Do you make certain agreements? Is there anything else I can think of so I don't dare trying?
     
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    Good luck.
    I finally gave up and got a PA. It’s healing now so am looking for a new device.I did this as I wanted something more secure. Btw the PA isn’t bad to get and omg my partner loves it.

    As for you. I guess your word should be your best tool. If you lie and cheat then what good are you?
     
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    It's called willpower, and respect. If you have agreed to be in chastity you owe it to your keyholder to not break that agreement.
     
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    I don't use a chastity device. I am on the honor system. The idea of a chastity device turned me on. I tried many including custom devices. With lube I could slip in and out of all of them with little effort. They are uncomfortable. They leave a big bulge in your pants (I like form fitting clothes).

    Even if I had a PA I could still make myself orgasm with a vibrator. I wouldn't be able to pull out but could still orgasm if I chose too. A PA would stop me from getting erect unless unlocked.

    I understand that chastity cages turn men on. It's a reminder. But really your still on the honor system as far as having an orgasm. I like wearing my small panties and tight clothes. I no longer want a device
     
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    Eventually, (in my opinion), “non-PA” chastity devices (as well as ball trap devices for that matter), will be as popular as clip-on earrings. As for using a vibrator on my Schandmaske device, no that just results in pain and frustration.
     
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    It took me 5 cages to get the perfect fit. With no pull out. I have never even thought about a PA.
     
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    I cannot pull out of my Behind Bars belt and with the outer cage it’s Vibrator proof
     
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    My frenum piercing prevents me from pulling out...If I could I definitely would!
     
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    I have a Steelworxx Looker 2 with an insert. Its impossible for me to pull out with the insert in which extands past the base ring (or the ring round my balls if thats not the right word) about 1 cm. I thought it would be really uncomfortable and infection prone but never had a problem. Longest stint without cleaning was 2 weeks with longest overall wearing about a month in total. I just make sure everything is cleaned and I sterilise in our vegetable steamer (!) for an hour when first wearing (or during periodic cleaning, but I'm handcuffed for that) For us chastity is play, less than lifestyle so not sure if this type of device would work for super long term wear.

    Not vibrator proof though...
     
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    I could pull out of my 1.75” MCN cage, but I won’t get him back in, I can also use a wand on my cage and orgasm. But I asked my wife to live this lifestyle and she agreed, so I only cum when she allows it.
    Now I will add, I get relief quite often, and very often compared to many on this forum. So if she suddenly decides it’ll be months of no relief, things may push us to just get pierced. We do keep a small padlock on the wand plug usually to help keep me honest lol
    Also, my Queen would know by my attitude, attention and mind set if I were cheating and cumming without permission
     
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    I guess if I wanted to I could pull out of my device and get some "pleasure in" but I could never get the device fully off. There is no way my testicles could fit between the gap where the cage meets the ring.

    I don't think it would be very pleasurable though in the long run. Also, it is a respect thing and a matter of being practical here... what is the point in participating in a relationship/dynamic like this if you are just going to sit there and lie to your partner about it?

    You would be better off communicating and saying you want no part of it.

    Now the fun part that you didn't mention... if your partner wanted you to get a PA, it probably isn't a trust issue... it is more likely just to further the dynamic you have going, which is pretty cool if you are committed.
     
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    A PA is something we might look into down the line for sure, just starting out though so no need to run before we can walk. Have you looked at Locked in Lust's Vice plastic device named for its anti-pullot insert?
     
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    well i dont think i cud get out of my cage cos it got a tube that gose in me and i cant push my wiily down to get the tube out cos the plate stops that. i have not really try tho cos it not rigt to.
     
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    Lori's w retainer ring. Expensive, long lead, very careful measurements. But it does the job you request very well once dialed in.

    Tetherspout is another option but I havent tried it since the Lori 2D has proven inescapable for me.
     
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    I agree with making agreements and not lying, else it wouldn't make sense. I am seriously not considering a PA. I notive many still try to convince me but it is just not something for me. For us.

    Would a belt attached to the ball trap device be a solution? One you cannot simply cut but fits good enough?
     
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    You would be surprised how malleable testicles are. The first time I tested how much weight I could bear suspended from a scrotal parachute, it pulled completely off. The hole was barely large enough to fit my pinkie finger, yet each extruded through, right one first (as always, because it's a bit smaller). It was unpleasant.

    As for the OP, without a piercing or a full belt, the best one can hope for is to make reinsertion after pullout a dicey proposition (unless a Tetherspout works for you anatomy). The Lori style ring in a tight tube that fits the full length of the shaft would be quite a challenge.
     
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    I use a waist cable and small frontal metal plate

    Escape proof
     
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    Exactly, we gave up on finding a device that fits and works so we are on honor system
     
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    I wear a MM jailbird and this fit is snug and a tight base ring very hard to get on Once you get used to it very comfy no slip and there is no pulling out and I wear mine 24 7 365
     
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    So the issue is you can pull out of your device? How about this:
    http://malechastitynow.com/Chastity-Device/KalisTeethBracelet

    I promise you that pulling out of it is strongly discouraged and with a base ring is nigh impossible without a lot of pain. Then, you’d never get it back in without a lot more pain. Measure correctly and it’s completely docile while not aroused.

    If that’s not really your speed, lockedinlust which is advertised on this site with a discount does have an anti pullout that the device is practically built around and they have a spiked anti pullout set now too.

    What belt are you currently using? Have you considered full belt styles? Are you considering a custom belt now or in the future? You’re not open to a piercing, then are you open to the use of a urethral tube? What have you tried so far? Need more information to reliably assist you in what you want…
     
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    I am in sort of the same boat. The cage is more of a symbol. you can orgasm in any cage...even PA.

    I do want to walk around the house, naked except for the cage, serving my Master/Wife but I don't know if she would agree to that.

    THe fact is, cages are escapable.There has to be a balance between comfort and non-escapability.

    Until they can invent a star trek type device...it's what we have.
     
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    Willpower, just dont try to pullout
     
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    Currently in a Chinese version of the Kink3d. Best cage I have had so far. I am primarily looking for extra motivation for not trying. Insert thingies are also not an option for me personally.
     
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    Changing topic to: How to stay motivated to not to try the pullout possibility :)
    - Respect for your keyholder
    - You agreed together you won't try
    - You don't lie
    - ..
     
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    - Lying/trying breaks the entire purpose, so don't try
    - ..
     
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