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    #1 Knox_, Jun 4, 2021
    I have been struggling with my weight for many years. Always just above average and in periods it goes well but in periods it certainly does not. The last few years it has been too much. In recent periods my keyholder has been playing with my chastity, orgasm denial and locked me in my device for undecided periods. Besides those periods I can decide for myself when I have an orgasm. In the last few weeks, things have changed. She has put me on a serious weight schedule and this week she said that for each kilo I lose I may ask for an orgasm. She decides whether I am allowed to do so or get a next change at the next kilo. Last year we did Locktober, this year it will be No-vember. The weight schedule is at least till November she said. The chance of orgasms until then has already been reduced considerably. The game has changed... Hopefully the weight loss will be more successful... It could be a long and frustrating six months....
     
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    #2 MissyB, Jun 4, 2021
    Good luck with your goals. I struggle with too much weight at times too. Keep after it, and follow her rules and it will turn out well for you. Besides, Locktober, No-vember, and Denied-December are nice ways to end the year.
     
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    #3 Dr MBogo, Jun 4, 2021
    Good luck! I have long had to be careful about weight also, although my wife/KH takes a different approach. She comes from a family of wonderful cooks and big men (and women). She prefers a bigger partner. I am required to finish all of whatever she serves me, if I want any chance at playtime. As a result, I weigh 206lbs now, vs about 175lbs when we started me in chastity almost 5 years ago.
     
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    #4 Lazlo Toth, Jun 4, 2021
    Oh how I love honesty! Dr Bogo, good on you!
     
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    #5 KeyholderD, Jun 4, 2021
    I am proud of you for openly speaking about a topic that is fragile for you. Over the last years chasity proved to be a great method to help you achieve goals considering your weight. So I will use it as a tool, as a punishment and as a reward. For at least these six months you will have to earn your orgasms. And I am convinced you will. I believe in you.

    Happy to read positive comments from other members here.
     
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    #6 Knox_, Jun 4, 2021
    So happy you walk this road with me! Looking forward to it! Even it will be difficult, I know this is the road to go... Thank you for your support!
     
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    #7 Isopropylforyou, Jun 4, 2021
    What are you doing to lose the weight?

    Iso.
     
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    #8 Jessica Alexander, Jun 5, 2021
    Deep down, we all know what we need to do to lose weight and increase fitness. Rather than just focusing on the scale, she should hold you to brisklywalking at least 30 minutes a day (4 miles/8.8 kilometers per hour and lifting weights at least 3x a week.

    Meal planning is critical for success so she can make sure you always know what you are eating for the next two days in advance. I highly recommend the Carnivore diet for optimum health and weight loss. Give it 30 days and go from there.

    Almost all overweight people have a degree of Metabolic Syndrome which is the new age phrase for pre diabetes and insulin resistance. NOTHING works better to reverse that than low carb and exercise!
     
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    #9 Knox_, Jun 5, 2021
    It all comes down to eat less and healthier. During the day is not an issue. After dinner in the evening always hungry again. And that is hard to resist. Exercise on regular basis is already fitted in.
     
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    #10 Knox_, Jun 5, 2021
    Thank you for your comment. So true!
     
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    #11 Chili-boy, Jun 5, 2021
    I have just weighed myself today after a few days away. Since being locked I have lost 7 pounds and I am just 3 pounds away from my target, She is very happy with me. I think the additional chores, helping where I can and focus on Her and not me has helped. Good luck with your journey
     
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    #12 LesterBallard, Jun 5, 2021
    good luck with it
     
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    #13 Dr MBogo, Jun 5, 2021
    LOL, thanks! It's funny-as I've gotten heavier, my cock "appears" to have gotten smaller, which my wife/KH has noticed and enjoys commenting on. So she realizes that feeding me has the extra effect of making my(her) cock less prominent and/or useful. Plus, she's heavy also. (about 275lbs) Between becoming less flexible with age and weight, and having larger bellies in the way, I'm not sure we could even manage standard intercourse anymore, particularly missionary position.
     
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    #14 Lazlo Toth, Jun 5, 2021
    You are my Chastity Mansion hero. All of us are getting older.....if for no other reason, chastity should be getting a little easier....while other things get harder!
     
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    #15 Knox_, Jun 6, 2021
    It is off to a good start. The first kilos have been lost. I feel motivated to really go for it now. Hopefully, I will be able to keep it up in the coming weeks and months. An extra sports schedule has been added. I would also like to hear from other forum participants whether you have also managed to live healthier lives by reducing weight in combination with chastity. Also in the long run? What kept you motivated? What were the difficult moments and how did you deal with them?
     
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    #16 Ron33, Jun 6, 2021
    We did this about 3 years ago. My goal was to lose 20 lbs. I was locked during the week and if by Saturday, I lost 1 lb or more, I got an orgasm. I only missed losing 1 lb in a week one time while losing 20 lbs!
     
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    #17 Knox_, Jun 6, 2021
    Well done! Good it worked for you. Still on track with your weight or did you gain afterwards?
     
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    #18 Ron33, Jun 6, 2021
    I have kept it off, maybe gained 2 or 3 lbs back. Doing chastity was a great motivator. I rarely missed exercise and watched what I ate.
     
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    #19 Dr MBogo, Jun 6, 2021
    LOL Thanks! Good to be a hero for somebody!
     
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    #20 Lazlo Toth, Jun 6, 2021
    I could not agree more with your statements.

    My MEASURED results after eating a VERY low carb diet combined with intermittent fasting have turned the clock back 30 years! If there's a fountain of youth, this is it.
     
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    #21 Jinkyu, Jun 7, 2021
    only diet I ever enjoyed was this (keto)
     
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    #22 madams-sissysub, Jun 7, 2021
    Good luck on your journey! I think we could all do with loosing a few pounds, so we’ll done to you for taking it on!
     
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    #23 Knox_, Jun 22, 2021
    Time for an update. The past few weeks have gone well. Weight has decreased significantly and currently I have lost 8 kg (17,5 lbs) in weight.
    The last few days the weight loss has come to a standstill despite a structured diet like the weeks before. But persistent to continue and enter the next phase. I earned an orgasm according to my KH, which was great. I am very happy with her support.
     
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    #24 subhubandy, Jun 22, 2021
    Congratulations and thanks for sharing. I am required to weigh myself and record every morning. Queen wife says I should not get over 100 pounds heavier than her. She is over a foot shorter so seems like a good scale. Doing it everyday keeps it in my thoughts...
     
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    #25 Knox_, Jul 7, 2021
    Weight is getting less and less. Today, there was another challenge for me. My Keyholder decided that I could wear my remote-controlled vibrating plug (Hush) at work today. Since my job involves a lot of people around me (health care), this is quite a challenge. The plug is intense in terms of sensation but also a little noisy when there is less ambient noise. She thought it would be fun to play with it and she certainly did. It was an intense but very pleasant experience. They say that if you control a man's penis that you control your man. In my opinion you may add: if you control a man's anus, you control your man... Now that she knows that it is no longer a problem to wear in such environment, she will undoubtedly use this plug more often....
     
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