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No PIV leads to permanent chastity

Discussion in 'Female led relationships' started by harddenial, Oct 14, 2017.

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Opinion: Does no PIV inevitably lead to permanent chastity??

  1. Yes (no PIV applies to us)

    22 vote(s)
    41.5%
  2. No (no PIV applies to us)

    8 vote(s)
    15.1%
  3. Yes (but this doesn't apply to us)

    11 vote(s)
    20.8%
  4. No (but this doesn't apply to us)

    12 vote(s)
    22.6%
  1. CagedInTokyo
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    My KH and I are new to permanent chastity. I have been locked up 24/7 for about a month now. Before that we would have PIV a few times a month. Since being permanently in a cage I have pleasured her orally 2 or 3 times a week. And on 3 occasions she has wanted PIV after her oral orgasms. (On 2 of those occasions I was allowed to orgasm as well). So in our case (at least at the moment) my KH still wants PIV with me but also wants me caged 24/7. I guess I am lucky!!
     
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    Jasmic68 living in interesting times

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    There is nothing inevitable about anything any of us are doing. Every participant is different, every keyholder has different needs and desires. Just because one chaste male is kept permanently that way doesn't mean another will be. The fact that I am kept chaste for longer or shorter periods of times than someone else is irrelevant. If I am chaste permanently that is irrelevant. To think otherwise is to think that someone else is doing it wrong if they are not having PIV (an acronym most women at this forum find offensive and distasteful) but are also not permanently chaste.
     
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  3. PouchPantyLover
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    Really? I had no idea that anyone found it distasteful. What is the preferred terminology? I think I'm going to start a new thread on this topic.
     
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    Relevant to the thread perhaps becaue it was this thread that prompted the conversation.

    Discussing the subject of permanent locking and denial . Some conclusions were reached; that permanent locking is in reality in the long term an impractical fantasy. For several obvious reasons, not least but perhaps the minimum health hygeine and hair control plus as many others as you like.

    Being kept locked in a device that MAY be removed retains the Key Holder's control and her full range of options.

    Stating that denial is to be permanent removes some options for the KH and therefore takes away from her Full Control. Which is obviously not permitted.

    The basis for the correct approach is that; The chaste one being kept locked at the whim of the KH and not knowing when or even IF the next opportunity to orgasm may be offered helps ensure the KH has her Full Control and chaste one only needs to know 3 things ... (1) that he is locked (2) he is being denied and of course ...and its only because his KH wants to until she no longer wants to..... (3) who it is that keeps him that way.

    That he might get an opportunity to cum again is just a little incentive to encourage his endurance and possibly stimulate his behaviour and co-operation. That he might be unlocked for reasons other then hygeine and maintenace is just more encouragement to behave in the way his KH desires.
     
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    jemima maid for my Mistress

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    i am let out sometimes when we goes out to a nice place and then i can tuck.
     
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    Giles_English Chaste slave

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    I'm not sure that no PIV leads to permanent chastity for most couples but, apparently for Ms K/H and myself at the moment, it might seem so. Sex between us has been pretty much nil for quite a number of years. She doesn't even ask/order oral on her so it would seem as though I'm only needed as a maid. My sexual needs/wants don't matter as I, like so many others here have stated, almost feel naked without being locked.
    If I'm to be kept permanently locked, I'm ready. I just hope she doesn't tell me that it's permanent. Let me have my fantasies of a hope toward another orgasm eventually.
     
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    Vinny Locked up again. Starting year 6.

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    We cannot remember when was the last time we had PIV. It was sometime after my wife got a steady girlfriend. Maybe 20+ years. However I only started wearing a Jailbird 6 years ago. All those other years I was just denied any form of penetration with any part of my body. I basically took part in the threesomes and after both women had their orgasms I was either sexually tortured and told to masturbate or was just left there and I masturbated alone. There was no orgasm denial involved, just no PIV.

    For us chastity is a no brainer. I have ED and retrograde ejaculation. Add no PIV and a wife who mostly orgasms from her vibrator and might as well lock it up. However we really do not view this as D/s. All we did was put my wife in charge of when we have sex. That is where it ends. Other than that, I am the dominant one in the marriage.
     
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