No P.I.V. Embrace or Hope?

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    Very interesting comments & view here, everyone!

    I agree with Rectrix about having to eroticize denial, although I'm not sure the eroticization (gee, is that a word?) was something I had to do, as opposed to it being more spontaneous on my part.

    I've been pussy-free for longer than I can remember exactly. That was not an option with Mistress, but I had orgasm and/or ruin allowances (by masturbation). No more, though, it seems. Mistress has not said she will absolutely not allow me another orgasm/ruin, but she has clearly indicated that is what she wants, and there will be severe repercussion if I am allowed one.

    And strangely, I find this incredibly arousing! It's like I've made denial a fetish where that is how I'd prefer to cum, but that is of course a contradiction.

    What scares, and excites, me now is that perhaps erections are going the way of orgasms for me.

    Of course, these things are always up to Mistress,, but these are my expectations.....and I find it very arousing!
     
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    Embrace or hope?
    Both are valid options, we all have to make choices for how we live.

    Do we eat fattening food, or eat healthily?
    Do we spend money freely or save for a rainy day?
    Do we have PIV with orgasms with the consequential male hormonal roller coaster, or do we embrace denial and enjoy the continual heightened arousal?

    It could be either, the right choice for you is the one that you both enjoy today and that you won't regret in the future.

    It's also valid to make a choice for now, and change your mind later, to be able to experience both options in different parts of your life.
     
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    I say embrace it, my madam has made it clear I won’t be permitted PIV again, knowing it’s not an option has kept me focused on being a better slave.
     
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    Thanks for saying so clearly. There IS a value to embracing what is likely to be a future condition. One may PREFER it not to be the case, but if it is.....make the best of it.
     
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