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    One of the most mind blowing and exciting things for me is when I have sex with my wife and she orgasms but does not allow me to orgasm. PIV sex is rarely allowed for me so it is a challenge to hold back my orgasm but I’ve gotten good at it through all the years of being teased to the edge of orgasm. She is always on top and controlling the pace. Last night was one of those rare and exciting moments for me. When she starts to orgasm it becomes even harder for me to hold back but I concentrate hard. When she is done I always get a huge erotic rush knowing that I gave her tremendous pleasure and also from being used as her sex toy. It is a wild feeling and I love it!
     
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    That sounds wonderful!
     
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    We used to do that. We would have sex 3 or 4 times a week and I would only orgasm about every two weeks. Kept me reved up for sure.
     
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    I agree, this is a powerful and wonderful feeling! I also found giving my wife an orgasm with a toy while I am caged is very powerful as well.
     
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    This is how she likes it as well. Two or three times a week. She hasn't let me come since Christmas. I get a lot of satisfaction when she does........transference I guess.
     
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    This exactly. My pleasure comes from her orgasm these days and it does give me release.
     
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    Wow, I am surprised to hear that some of you experience this two or three times a week. If I am lucky I get to pleasure my Goddess wife once a week and as for actual sex, it only occurs once every few months. I guess my wife's libido is not as active as other women.
     
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    My wife allows me to come only once every three months or so. But she likes PIV --not every time we play, but regularly. So I pretty frequently strap on for her, and about as often she uncages me, but then (if O forbidden) I usually put on numbing cream and a condom so that I can last indefinitely. It's very frustrating, both ways, but also very wonderful. I love contributing to the great pleasure she experiences and watching her without much distraction.
     
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    I've done that accidentally by just pushing for a longer and longer sex session and more and more orgasms for my wife. At some point my dick just quits and taps out whether I cum or not. If it was my goal I would try some combination of the following:
    1. condom or 2 condoms, possibly "delay longer lasting" condoms which have some Lidocaine in them
    2. Lidocaine spray/cream
    3. cock ring
    4. ball ring
    5. cock extender/sleeve
    6. viagra or cialis

    By the way the Peineili spray off AliExpress absolutely has Lidocaine in it and numbs your dick to the point you think it fell off. Just saying.
     
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    I had a previous Mistress who would let me cum while we had intercourse about 9 out of 10 times, so i would always go into it expecting to cum. However, every so often after She had her orgasm, She would just say "I am done, I just want to go to sleep with your dick inside me. So she would get herself situated on her side, i would stick my dick inside her and not move until She went to sleep. I would be going crazy, being inside her and not being able to move until after She fell asleep. I was unbelievably horny, all i needed to do was move back and forth a few times and i could cum, but She denied me permission.
     
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    Hot. Hmm, might try that with the wife some time if she'll let me.
     
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    My partner has just started doing this with me again, when we first got together she would often deny me an orgasm, though in reality she has always been pretty generous in that respect.

    Indeed it was only a few nights ago, and like you had a very hard time holding back when she climaxed after which she likes me to keep moving for a while before she tells me to be still and go soft. Then she left me out of the cage for a few days while she was staying with me.

    Strange I really hated being out of the cage and left to temptation, then she teased me by letting me put it inside her the morning I had to put the cage back on and that sensation was awesum, then really glad she left me out of the cage lol. It has only been a week since my last orgasm. Once again she has me be still until it goes soft.

    After two weeks I will really struggle with holding back. Ill probably have to withdraw which she would rather me able to control myself, numbing cream and condom doesn't really help a lot. Lately she has been threatening me with replacement with the vixskin which we tried the other day and she really liked it in that it felt real. I think she is aiming for 4 weeks denial this time so she may really do it.
     
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    That is hot! It is mind blowing when you know you are on the verge of orgasm and your body's natural instincts are to thrust but you must hold back. Often times my wife will tease me to the edge and then just hold her hand around my cock firmly. It is so hard for me to hold back and not move. One little movement from her hand could send me over the edge. Then after several seconds when I come off the edge just a tiny bit she will lightly pulse her hand and I am right back on the edge. After just a minute or two of this, my mind is mush. I love it!
     
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    My Wife still loves piv and really doesn’t care for toys, so I am expected to be able to control myself to give her piv without an accident whenever she desires.
    As chastity got really real, this was an issue, going from piv sex daily together pre cage to denial and having to deal with extremely decreased stamina, we used lidocaine on the glans for a while, but something changed the longer we’ve lived like this.
    Since the beginning of ‘22 we decided my orgasms should really only be from handjobs and that piv would be for her orgasms only, I’ve somehow stopped needing the lidocaine completely. Even though my Wife has decreased piv to a handful of times per month and uses my tongue daily, I can still give her penetration for easily 15-20 minutes for her to orgasm once or twice. Yet when she lubes me up and slowly strokes me for a edging session or for a ruin or full orgasm, she’ll have me a begging mess on the verge of orgasm within a minute or two.
    My Wife loves it, and I find it very interesting and I’m happy I can still provide her what she wants. I’d say it’s true that the brain is the largest sex organ and apparently can be trained to overcome being a fast cummer in some situations lol
     
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    That sounds pretty awesome! I can only imagine! I guess I should be grateful we can't have PIV anymore and life is much simpler. To compensate, lately we've been finding ways to stimulate each other manually so she can orgasm at the same time as she's teasing me. That's really added a new twist to our love making. However, it does cut down on my ability to feel like I'm experiencing her orgasm since I'm so distracted.
     
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    Yes, sharing the Wife’s orgasm has become so incredible! I’ve hit the point where I look forward to hers way more than my own any more.
    Another way she likes to play is to just lay together missionary with a bullet vibe held between us and grind together basically, we have to use a small towel or wash cloth so the cage doesn’t pinch her. But that way we still get the closeness, holding, kissing etc of making love, and she can orgasm, and the vibrations feel good on my cage too. So it’s a nice change up sometimes if she’s been on an oral marathon, until she’s ready to allow some piv again.
     
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    No orgasm sex is great if you can find ourself in right mental place to enjoy sensations without rush or goals. Fun!
     
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    Had a lovely spontaneous afternoon session. I read erotica to her while she teased me, then she said "go strap on". I was able to enjoy a long fuck, changing up the speed and angle, until she soaked the bed with her squirt. Wonderful focusing on her pleasure and listening and watching as she lost control. And then, still caged, I was dismissed.
     
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    I found that the key to it is to simply accept that I will not ejaculate, it's totally off the table.

    With that in mind it totally changed how we made love and for how long. It was no longer bam bam bam, just rubbing our genitals together, it became a wild time of heavy breathing, skin-contact, writhing around, with pauses to collect one's thoughts.
     
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    Glorious!
     
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    While I get great satisfaction from satisfying my wife she won't deny me because she says getting me off gets her off
     
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    All good experiences thanks for sharing. For me this wouldn't work. My wife can't really orgasm from PIV so when we give her an orgasm I am not inside her. But then after she comes down she will sometimes unlock me and ride me. I always ask if I can cum before I do but she has never said no. Honestly I think if she said no I might cum faster but for sure I would not be able to hold back unless it was decided before we start that if I feel like I am getting close we stop. The problem with that is after being locked so long, then just helping and seeing her orgasm, and feeling the cage come off and getting my first erection in weeks (or months), then feeling her lube me up and slide me in. I would almost immediately have to stop before I got to the point of no return.
     
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    Well for a specific example, on Friday night my wife told me she wanted some pleasure and came downstairs to the living room with her favorite clit sucking vibrator. She watched TV while I licked her pussy until she told me to get her "friend" involved. After her first vibrator assisted orgasm she unlocked me and wanted my dick inside her along with the vibrator (now in her hand). It wasn't easy to avoid ejaculation but I managed to hold out while she had 4 more orgasms. Her pussy squeezes me tight and spasms when she orgasms so it was very difficult to avoid cumming but I managed. She told me she was done after the 5th and pushed me off her (and my erect penis out of her). I loved it. I also think this is hot. Fun for me, fun for her.

    But for the practical side of things, I'd rather do this with some "assistance" from some combination of the following:
    1. A cock ring at the very least
    2. Cialis or Viagra so I can think about the war in Ukraine and still be hard, but not pushed to orgasm.
    3. A condom or "long lasting" (includes a small amount of numbing agent) condom
    4. Numbing spray or cream
    5. An extender/sheath for vastly reduced sensation

    Well, some of our wives actually like our dicks and want PIV orgasms but that may not include an orgasm for the man. Lots of different ways to play this game.
     
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    I’m on daily 5mg tadalafil (cialis) with TRT, and I’ve found it possible to give my Wife piv when she requires, without lidocaine now. We decided last year that almost all my orgasms would be from her hand except for rare occasions, and somehow I’ve been able to just flip some switch mentally that when my cock is in her it is for her pleasure solely.
    Now, I will add that last year I did have to use lidocaine for a few minutes to numb my glans and wipe it off before piv during really long lockups. And this year she’s given me more frequent small ruins, and she hasn’t made me go longer than a month in between full orgasms. So I’d guess that has a lot to do with it also, but when she uses her hand I have almost no stamina.

    If your Wife if is up for it, could be some fun experiments for you lol
     
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    Madam allowed us to do this a few times before she cucked me, and decided I should be P free, it does mess with your mind!
     
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