No more orgasms

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    My Goddess has said she will not allow me any orgasms anymore. She will only occasionally allow release through a ruined orgasm. I’m sure there are others here who have been in long term orgasm denial. My question is what are the effects? Does it make you constantly horny? Does it help you to focus more on your Domme? What are the psychological effects? Does it increase stress and irritability?
     
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    Depends on your attitude. Could keep you super horny and submissive.
     
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    Only one of the those statements can be true.
     
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    some done consider a ruined orgasm a true orgasm

    Some of us prefer prostrate milking for release and that doesn’t help relieve the horniness.
     
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    Yes you are horny, yes your focused on your domme, psychological effects? As I have mentioned. And yes for the beginning it does cause stress and irritability! You just need to stick with it and push through, I found prostate stimulation, or anal orgasms to be the saviour, you get something, but there is no stop like with a regular orgasm, good luck on your journey!
     
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    My latest lock up without an orgasm is 22 days and counting. I was told my next one is September 4th and She means it. I showed her an article on someone here who is not allowed an erection or orgasm and and was supervised at the doctor. She liked that idea and stated that She doesn't actually like cum inside her and is perfectly happy with her wand and a couple of fingers. Plus with all the chores and housework I do, as well as endless feet and neck massages. It was casually mentioned that perhaps it will be just two a year permanently. Something to aim for.
     
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    Your Goddess is a very wise woman. You should have no relief at all, nature will take care. No erection, no orgasms, no ruined anything. Just chastity. Forever. You will both benefit from your very small gift. Set your mind free, stop thinking so much. Just let her set the rules...
     
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    There being no alternative, you'll get used to it
     
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    Tease and denial keeps me horny and submissive. I am not allowed any orgasms but I sometimes go over the edge during a tease session and have a ruined orgasm.
    She is getting better at cutting me off in time.
     
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    At first I would count the days between orgasms. The longer I go without, I got super horny and my Wife(KH) knows it and uses it against me. Now I don't mention being locked up or that I even have a cage on. My penis and any orgasms I get is in my Wife's hands. It really depends on my Wife. how she is feeling, if she is horny. It's only been three years for me, being locked up. I do a lot of things now, that my Wife use to have to tell me to do. House chores are done daily now without being told, her being served is all the time. The attention I do get now is worth every minute of waiting. The odd orgasm is welcome, but sometimes when asked if I want to come, I can tell my Wife really doesn't want me to, and I have her stop teasing me and return to being locked...
     
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    I don’t experience the psychological satisfaction nor receive any pleasure from a ruined orgasm. Afterwards I’m still horny. It’s a misnomer really. It should be ruined release because it’s definitely not an orgasm.
     
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    You're "member" will inevitably shrink if locked for long period of time. No way around that part.
     
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    I have practiced no orgasms off/on. Im currently trying it again. 7 days no O so far. Reading chastity stories doesnt help down there. Im not locked, im in process of measuring and ordering a device from MM.
    from a non-fetish point, orgasms/getting off is not really necessary. This is my ultimate goal (no more O) I want to be free of that. Google searches can give you more insight of mixed opinions. There are no fap guys who no longer get off. I consider myself sub, but I refuse to live as that being my objective.
     
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