I was driving with my wife: Wife: "I spoke to the acupuncturist I see about your frequent peeing. She said that acupuncture and Chinese herbs could help." Me: "Oh, thanks for speaking to her." Wife: "She also said that, when they reach a certain age, some Chinese men abstain from all ejaculation. They say it saps their kidney energy." [In Chinese medicine 'kidney energy' doesn't relate to the kidney organs] Me: (silently) My cock started to push against the cage. Later, I told my wife about my cock's reaction to the thought of no more ejaculations. I didn't say that that might be a reason for me to get and use a dildo and a harness but that was one of the first things that came to my mind. She's turned that down in the past but if further investigation supports no cuming for me we might revisit that decision. When she wants to have PIV sex she unlocks me and we do it. It does feel great at the moment but the truth is I'm not looking for it. Frustrated hornyness is a strange "pleasure" that many of you are very familiar with.
I can relate to what you are saying. I also like the feeling of being really horny and denied especially with tease and denial. My wife brought me to orgasm with the vibrator she uses on me a few days ago. It had been 3 weeks since the previous orgasm. I told her I was about to cum and begged her to please stop. She wanted to see me cum on myself and she did. I still feel a let down and it has been 3 days.
Are you actually peeing more or not totally voiding your bladder when you pee? Excess thirst and peeing is a prime symptom of diabetes and often serious when you get to the point of having symptoms. Urine retention in the bladder is often a sign of enlarged prostate which needs checked out.
Thanks Jessica Alexander, I'm pretty sure I'm dealing with an enlarged prostate. I was on Flowmax for a while but it didn't help. I'm gong to see if acupuncture and Chinese herbs help. If they don't I'll see a different urologist.
If you want to try something alternative, try pumpkin seed oil. Here is a legit research study. It focuses mainly on hair but DHT is the culprit that kills hair and enlarges prostate. Please make sure your fasting blood sugar levels are fine and if they are the “pre diabetes” range, ask your Dr. for metformin. Metformin has many health benefits including permanent weight loss, more energy as well as other benefits. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4017725/
"Frustrated hornyness is a strange "pleasure" that many of you are very familiar with." Could not have put it better Happily Locked Man. Well said.
Yeah, I get way more aroused by talk of how restrictive my chastity/denial are, than any thought of sex. I've always been really turned on by the idea of being cut off from sex and pleasure, but it's gotten worse as I've found myself actually in that boat, go figure! We are trying 6 month intervals, which will be late March when I have to empty out again. Will see how that goes. Prostate wise, I find that I empty fully and forcefully when standing, but struggle somewhat when sitting (the metal ring doesn't help there) to empty out in one go. It gets like that after 1 month or so, and it settled in, and hasn't changed heading into month 4.
metformin, which I am taking, is being investigated as being a bad drug. There are indications the drug is made with cancer causing ingredients. It also makes a mess of your digestive system. Trying to monitor and control blood sugar with a drug that causes diarrhea is challenging at best. I am seeing my doctor next week to try to find an alternative. https://binqayumpharmacy.com/metformin-recalled-due-to-carcinogenic-agent/
Anytime i start having an issue with waking up to pee to much Mistress will fuck me long and hard with her huge strapon to massage my prostate. The peeing issue will go away for a few weeks. Sometimes if Mistress makes me use our NJoy stainless wand to massage it herself. I never had the issue to much when Mistress would milk me every three weeks.
It has been almost a year since my last ejaculation Last weekend while having piv sex with my wife I became so aroused that I asked for permission to cum. She immediately pulled off of me and said she had been thinking of telling me that I may cum but when I asked for it the answer was "no" At the time I wished she had said "yes" but within just a few minutes I knew she had made the right decision
Yes, can't help but be in awe of them when they do that....i tend to want to cuddle adoringly when that happens
I did subsequently let my Wife know that I was happy that She had made the right decision denying me an orgasm. Of course She knew that without me saying so. Yesterday was the one year anniversary of my last orgasm. We enjoyed piv sex and my denial continues into a second year.
In response to the original post, many years ago when we were dating my Wife suggested male orgasm denial based on Chinese taoist practice. At the time I wasn't ready for it due to my selfish male ego, which chastity has helped me let go