NO IDEAS ANYMORE

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  1. lockankeyed
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    Wha was a boring relaionship was spiced up when she discovered my fascinattion wih chastity. Off and on for almost 3 years, (ME long before that) she really seemed to be getting into it because she got all the (sexual) attention. I'm not a sissy type but I am submissive. We even started playing with naked bondage around the house.
    For my birthday in July she bought me this chrome steel CB6000 like cage. I LOVE it. In August she told me she was moving back to Texas where her family is. I CAN'T DO THIS AROUND HER FAMILY. I'm still paying for "our" house and my car and relocatng just isn't possible. She's gone and I'm on my own. "We" put this rivet thing on my cage and it's hollow and there's a lock through it too. She took the keys with her. She said I gave them to her and I guess I did. I seriously can't get it off and I really don't care anymore.
    My biggest problem is looking at this every day. All breakups are bad I guess, this is a little beyond that. It's like walking around naked and nobody even looks a you. NOBODY knows I'm in chastity and I have no one to share this with and that's the worst part for me. I feel like a freak walking around with this secret in my pants!
    I'm adjusting to being alone again I think, alone in chastity is a different story. I'm eventually going to have to cut this thing off I guess. When I do I'm going to regret it.
    Men who are in chastity are in chastity because they want to be and they, we, want someone to know it. She should have taken this cage AND what's in it.
     
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    Aye, good luck
     
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    Sounds like a nightmare. How long has this been going on? Just call her and have her send the key.

    It's probably pretty easy to pick the lock... I would avoid trying to cut it off.
     
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    Bolt-cutter time? Unless you can use a cordless angle grinder, quicker but much scarier!
     
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    Sorry for being blunt, but apart from feeling sorry for your frown I feel like I need to remind you, that chastity is not the reason for (or solution for boring) relationships!
     
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    and a paperclip will probably open that lock.
     
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    Seriously, you probably don't even have to try hard to pick it. Just straighten out a paperclip and shake it around for a few mins and it will come right off. Please do that before you do any cutting.

    Sorry you are going through all this. She sounds like a piece of work
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    So if I’m understanding this correctly, the two of you broke up and didn’t bother unlocking you before she left.

    1...that was an asshole move in her part.

    You are going to need to be able o get that thing off you at some point so now is as good a time as any. Not sure what you were talking about with rivets and locks, but it needs to be removable.

    Get it off, and play with cage when you want or wait for another keyholder situation.
     
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    If you don't have one already buy a junior hack saw and pack of blades.. end of problem.

    Being kept locked by someone that doesn't carethat you are is simply pointless
     
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    agree with this, or get a small pair of bolt cutters as previously mentioned also.
     
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    Get the cage off and mail it to her. Just maybe she will open it in front of her family. Like others have said , it's pointless to be caged without a KH. I am sure if you look and try ,you will find another KH. GET THE CAGE OFF NOW .
     
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    Try a really hot bath for 30 mins. its the only way Ive ever got out.
     
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    I can't believe no one has called "bullshit" yet. In the unlikely event it's real, go to Home Depot and buy a Dremel. You can have ANY device off in less than 30 min or less. A small "step drill bit" will remove any rivet in a few seconds.
     
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    There is no such thing as a chastity device that cannot be removed. I'm between cutting it off because I don't really want to, and leaving it on because I DO really want to and I thought I actually found someone to share this with. Everyone (almost) is looking for a keyholder (AND MORE ?) because WE in chastity want to share the experience.
    I'm not saying I cannot remove it. It was a gift, and then she walked away. I don't need the keys to get it off, I just want someone to give them to who understands. I'm saying I DON'T WANT TO remove it and I DON'T WANT TO wear it alone. Like alot of others. This stopped being a fantasy years ago.
    I just needed to complain. thanx for the comments.
     
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    In the meantime you can go to a spa for a massage ,caged as you are,of course, and see what happens......
     
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    Purely on the basis I think it is wrong to include someone in your 'kink' without their informed consent

    I do not think it fair to go for a massage whilst locked without the person doing the massge being aware that you will be wearing one and having given you permission to do so.

    Even though I'm sure the women that work in what we used tro call mucky saunas would probably just be amused I'd still ask first.
     
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