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    She is also very pleased with the outcome. The hole area is "cleaned up" nicely, after a lot of "piercing baggage", - and the access to the uretha is considered hot she thinks... A meantomy, but the head is not split open, - it is still fully functional and in shape;-)
     
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    Use the "aspirin" (acidum acetylsalicylicum), this will reduce the risk.
     
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    oooh it look like a big sausage.
     
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    Where is it written in the text?
    "At this point I feel that it may be permanent"
    "( from what I have read the insulating layer around the nerve shaft will eventually repair but this may take from 6 months to 1 year.)"
     
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    I would like to thank all for the amount of comments, concern and interest, both here an in several Personal messages. It is what makes this site worthwhile THANK YOU CM:)

    I have decided to have @BlueEyes start a thread, where the progress in this new approach is documented. I sense it would be of interest to more than a few in here. I will monitor the thread, but I will allow him to write about the changes he experience in his attitude and understanding of his function and position. From what he already has presented for me, big changes in his overall understanding - marvelous changes I would have to admit:) - is occurring right before my very eyes. He seems so content, and service minded like never before. Last night he was awake for two hours, he revealed this morning, and he was so overwhelmed with a loving feeling a a desire to please me, stronger than he ever recall. Still he felt no sexual sensation. "Really strange and wonderful at the same time", was what he says...
    I can read that he finds that he is "Complete". I think it sums it all up pretty well:):)
     
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    Looks to me you've pretty much closed him down.....:):):):p:p:p:D:D:D............LOL!!!
     
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    The banding thing is probably more atributed to the desire to become a eunuch and in the states where elastrator are common on farms.
    Because of the difficulties in obtaining safe surgery guys thought they could see what the vets have to offer. .
    It's unlikely that any body has achieve castration via this method .
    However I guess just from experimentation some body discovered that banding your cock especially when flaccid and deep low down as close to your body as possible could produce very successful semi permanently numbing of your cock.

    It can last week's and yet seems not to do any other damage short or long term except the numbness.

    Thus you could look at this to the opposite way to the general idea on this thread. They see it as a way not to have a cock at all or as near as they can .

    Xx Wendy
     
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    Thank You:) I looked it up, and it certainly seems to be a good "safety assistant". I will start using it prior to further banding:)
     
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    Hey - and Yes, the goal is not to be and eunuch, both of us needs my manhood! Me mentally in defining who I am - and she physically:)
     
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    I'm aware that many men would start to panic if their member went numb, and they were left without feelings for weeks, months. What about edging, what about the feeling the pressure of the cage, What about the feeling of a throbbing denied cock? Yes, what about denial as a concept, when You are not capable of ejaculation after all??
    Well, I don't seem to have that kind of urges - anymore, or maybe for a longer time prior to this ( just was not aware of it?? ) I like it tremendously like this, and sitting here all numb, after having served both my wife and Anne last night with mouth AND COCK, without physical pleasures down there, let me concentre so much more on giving pleasures. Oh, I feel denied for sure, - that feeling remains, but somehow so much more real... She is the one who will order me when it is time to reband, and that short procedure is all she has to witness once in a while, to achieve a multitude of advantages. One day, when she is confident I won't for longer banding session then agreed upon ( I would not do it!!!:) ) then I will do it all by myself, leaving absolutely no "work" for her.

    I can see how the numbing compares to being equipped with a strap-on, while You are cage, except there is no gear, just "natural body work":).
    Numbing cream - as suggested by some, could do the trick, Im sure, but that would be - as with the Strap-on - something that sets the scene for "preparation to action", and I love the fact that the numbing session has nothing to do with preparation for sex, but is a general condition, to make me focus entirely on her pleasures in mind and in action, and is a procedure leaves the body without at lot of gear on. I seem to have lost my fetish for "decorating" my cock...., and she never really liked it much. I has been a necessary evil for her to achieve the required effect.

    I think that this "invisible chastity" is here to stay- and I have been told to do a thread about the progressions and the changes that I mentally and psychically go through.. I will start shortly:) I hope it will be of use;-)
     
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    I'm not joking, I'm serious. Because aspirin has a side effect that makes the blood more fluid and prevents thrombosis.
     
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    I like chemical castration, I was two years castrated so
     
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    Castration does not give the feeling of frustration.
     
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    I hope I DID not give the impression that You were joking. I took your advice seriously. Thanks!
     
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    Closed down... :) Yeah I see what You mean. But I prefer to look at it like this:
    He has reach the final destination, a station he has been trying to communicate to me for a long time. I just was not open - or ready for it. Now I find it very erotic and loving that he is willing to give up so much for making my life within this lifestyle so much easier. He knew my preferences: I like mind control over devices, gear, restrains and psychical punishment, and I like to think that the lifestyle is about serving his woman in every way, without trying one way or the other to bring back focus to HIS cock and his sexual kinks and needs.

    This solution scores max on all this parameters, don't You think?
     
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    Pretty much I should say.
     
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    Right again.:) Castration will deprive you of your sexual urges... - Cock banding will only numb , but the urges and the frustration of not being able to do anything about it, remains....
     
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    Chemical castration leaves you wonderfully calm
     
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    yes but it is true.
    try it
     
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    Lol
    Something got lost in the translation.

    Only if you are on powerful ant-androgen would you understand how calm you feel. I am on Decapeptyl and prognova with my bloods as 1.5 down from 27 testosterone and oestrogen at 420 .

    Thus I understood how calm you feel .
    Xx Wendy
     
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    Essentially I either have to lock up my cock in steel or be on chems to stop compulsive masturbation.. Best of all is both at the same time.
    S
     
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    My only qualms with chemical castration is that in removing the sexual urges it may lessen the resolve of a sissymaid to attend to her chores and for the male slave, wouldn't it lessen his devotion to his Mistress. Otherwise, I can see that it would be a solution to chronic masturbation.
     
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    I dont see why it should make a sissy maid to become lazy. It may help the male slave focus on the only thing that will give him pleasure ,his Mistress rather than his now obsolete cock and balls.
     
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