Newbie Question about Chastity

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    I just order a CB6K and should receive it next week. My wife is excited to begin exploring locking me up. Right now she is interested in doing this periodically for fun and not for real long periods of time, however that might change as she enjoys the power. One of my questions is, how much does being in chastity affect your ability to get hard once the device is removed? I know she wants me in it so that i cannot cum without her there, but she is adamant about me being able to get hard once she is ready for my cock. I have read that some people sometimes cannot get hard after being released. Any comments or experiences would be appreciated. Thanks.
     
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    We've never had a problem, but I guess it's a personal thing.

    pet is 24 years old, and the longest he's been in is only 30 days... so we're not talking long-term wear (yet!) :whipbang:
     
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    Ok, Good. I'm 31 and in great shape and have never had any problems with getting or keeping an erection, whether it be during pain, drunk, ect. so i'm sure this should be no issue. Thank you for your answer.
     
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    I've never had a problem with getting hard after being locked up (longest time was 20 days). Be prepared for the best sex of your life! Have fun! maid madeleine x
     
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    I stay in 24/7 365. I have been doing this for about 2 years or so. But I am allowed to orgasm about once every 3 weeks. I have never had a problem. As a matter of fact the erections are harder. The only problem is that it will not take much to make you orgasm.
     
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    The longest I have been locked down was for about three days (the shortness of the term largely due to problems I had with the device). I didn't so much have a problem obtaining an erection after release as I did obtaining erections while in my device and not being able to do anything about it. If anything, I was aroused more often. Anytime I remembered or became aware of my predicament that would usually put me in an aroused state. :gen085:

    [Edit:] Which was part of the fun!
     
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    I have heard stories on the internet of people who begin to loose the ability to get hard, but thats after 2-3 years of 24/7 wear, and no stimulation, or time out of the belt.

    I've never heard of anyone in short term chastity having a problem though, so all I can say is enjoy yourselves, and take it easy while you're starting out.
     
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    i am 55 lock in for months at time
    when unlock im rock hard bigger then before no problem
     
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    I personal have found that I get harder easier after being locked away for even a short period of time. I think its the "What what you can't have thing"

    For me I can go days without thinking, well hours, about sex when not locked. But soon as the lock clicks, sex is all this horny gurl thinks about and wants. Thinking of that right now, Honey got a minute!!! Missy Tanya
     
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    yea that is how i am also
     
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    yup, being locked makes me think about sex constantly...and i ooze like crazy.
     
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    Great! Thanks for all the answers. Just got my device in this morning. and have been wearing for about two hours now. Post more about it later. I love it so far.
     
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    My first real post here, but I thought I'd chime in. After going for a full month without orgasm for the first time (I was a one or twice a day guy before), I quickly developed hypogonadism. This is a unnatural drop in testosterone. Now, it could be that these two events are entirely unrelated, as this is not terribly uncommon as men turn 40. Estimates are that 25% or more of males are affected by this, but it is treatable. However, I've never been so sure that there wasn't a correlation between the two events.

    Anyway, my wife and I continue to enjoy my chastity. We've found that anything beyond 2 weeks is generally pointless as my sex drive just falls off a cliff - along with my servitude and behavior.
     
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    Welcome branded hubby, thank you for your first post!

    I don't think it's uncommon to have a "time limit". I have struggled to keep pet interested previously when he's been in chastity and we experienced the same desire and behaviour drop.
     
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    i have been lock in my cb for 6 weeks now,,,,,,,now yoiu know the main reason behind that so you dont want to jerk off dont want to look at porn or be with any one other then your mistress kh wife

    sex drive drops yes but then it pics up it goes up and down
    now for me its about obey wife serving her when and how she wishes if she comes home tonight unlock me for oral and either penetration or not i ineed to be ready and being lock so long does not take away form my erection or cumming at all
     
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    I am now on day 4 now. This is the longest i've not orgasmed in a very long time. Usually a couple times a day. I notice a great increase the amount of energy i have and the house has never been cleaner. My wife was a bit reluctant to the whole thing at first, not exactly understanding it all or knowing what exactly she is supposed to do with my new chastity. However, after only a couple of days she is wearing my key around her neck. teasing me sexually, and getting me to do things easily that she used to have to nag me about. We are already feeling more in love and more "fresh" in our marriage than we have in a while. She said last night that she is beginning to really like this and can see what makes it so fun. It seems that she really appreciates me for doing this for her too. at first i think she looked at it as doing it only for me but now she sees what she gets out of it. man, she looked so amazing in her heels this morning when she left for work with that key between her breasts. i cant wait to see her again tonight.
     
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