Newbie M for chastity - small experience

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    I've been treated to a 55mm ring, metal chastity cage. I feel like I'd be better suited for a 60mm but have trouble finding any that size - the length for my cock is perfect but i get a painful - almost burning sensation around my balls even after about 10 minutes of being locked, to the point where i simply need to take it off. Is this feeling at all normal? Is it too small (it IS tight but i know it needs to be tight so i can't escape it)? Would you recommend plastic ones/metal ones?
    I'm UK based so sites which ship to the UK/are based in uk would be preferred for recommendations.
     
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    It needs to be tight, but not tight enough that it starts cutting off the circulation. Warning signs would be your balls turning blue and the burning sensation but the latter could be due your body not being used to it.. Simply check, can you get one finger up to the first joint under the ring? Have you put any lube on the ring?
     
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    Yeah I've used some lube with it, but it's tight enough for me to struggle to secure the ring alone let alone be able to get a finger in addition with the package.
    Thanks for the reply, always appreciated :)
     
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    Then the base ring is too small.
     
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    I've looked on several sites and struggled to find anything with a 60mm base ring which I feel would be more suitable - but the downside is that there's a lot of good looking devices that come with a multi-hundred price tag. For a beginner that's quite a big commitment for something currently someone experiemental, despite the fact I'm sure with a good device I'd enjoy it
     
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    I understand not wanting to spend a lot of money in the beginning. How about a Cherry Keeper, designed by our member @JosieLynn Jewell? I think she has a 60mm ring her her store but if not, I'm sure she would design one for you. The Cherry Keeper is a 3D printed nylon device and really a great value. The only drawback is that the 3D printing leaves somewhat of a rough surface so you'll need to do a little sanding.
     
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    Lovely! That looks both great in price and design, I'll have to message her regarding shipping to the UK. A little bit of sanding is no problem at all, thank you
     
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    Thanks for the tag @Adam444 - Shapeways has printing services in Europe and ships from there as well, so it should be no problem!
     
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    WOW I just looked at the JosieLynn's site, great stuff.
     
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    Such a helpful bunch! I'm so glad i came here to ask about this stuff, I was feeling pretty lost and got directed here from a friend of a friend on FL. I'll be ordering in the near future!
     
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    Is there a chance that you just might be allergic to stainless?... I have an Aunt that is allergic to gold contact.
     
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