I need to find a metal cage with a urethral tube insert and anti-off spikes. Its my first time. Any advice please? I don't know where to find such a thing.
Seems to be a fairly advanced device for a newbie. The urethral tube will make the device harder to defeat/remove. However, I have heard that it increases the risk of getting a urinary tract infection, especially if not properly cleaned and cared for. Typically, it takes several tries to find a device that fits well. Often, people start with inexpensive ones from various sources (amazon, eBay, etc) Just search for the features you are looking for. Don’t spend too much on your first device. If you are of average size when soft, you will likely be OK with many one size fits all devices. However if larger, you will want to pay close attention to cage length (soft penis length. Subtract 0.5 to 0.75 inches) and base ring (take a string and measure a sung fit around the base of your cock and balls (string goes behind the balls.) If you are wide when soft, you can do the same for your penis width, but typically this is not an issue for most beginners. Once you get the cage, wear it for a few hours, see how it fits. If anything it too tight, you might need to consider a different size cage. If it fits, start wearing it for longer periods during the daytime. Finally, try a few overnights. Once you can wear it overnights without any skin damage, you are ready for longer term lock-up I hope this helps.