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    To become a better, fitter, more focused man for my Wife, I have made the below resolution. I post this here as a reminder for myself, and to keep myself on track.

    I am allowed a total of 11 orgasms in the coming year, on the first of each month, provided that:

    1. I weigh 77.5 kilograms or less
    2. I have been in chastity for at least 12 hours each day

    If I fail one of the above conditions on the first of the month, the orgasm for that month is denied.

    If I have an illegal orgasm, caused by masturbation, I will face punishment. The punishment is drinking a glass of my own warm urine, and posting a video of it on this forum as proof.
     
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    I weighed 80.7 kgs this morning, so clearly some work is in order.

    My chastity device is a Holy Trainer v3 Nano.
     
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    I mean whatever keeps you going.... What are you going to do to lose the weight and I don't like weight goals for people that work out... I think the idea of progress goals based off the exercises you are doing like 10% more weight or 10% faster etc...
     
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    I am going to eat more healthily, and exercise more :D

    I am currently 80.7 kilograms, so going to 77.5 kilograms is certainly doable with a little discipline. The goal is to lose that fat roll that turns off my Wife.
     
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    well 77 is not lots for a big man but have 11 orgsms is a lot . Have you got lock up in a cage or not.
     
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    Yeah I went on an eating binge for the second half of November and all of December... I am already down at least 5 or 8 pounds since I started. Just stick to an eating schedule and break yourself from terrible habits. You got this!
     
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    I think this is brilliant. It's simple, yet powerful. These are the best goals to have.
     
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    It sounds like a great idea. Hope it works keep us posted.
     
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    Eleven orgasms is not a lot for me. I am just starting with orgasm denial :D

    I am locked in a Holy Trainer Nano v3 during the daytime. I have tried sleeping in it, but found it hard. Not so much the nocturnal erections (I can handle that), but the pinching sensation that starts after half an hour lying down I found unbearable. I need my sleep, especially during lockdown with young kids around. So, sleeping in it will come later.
     
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    Thanks for all the nice comments!

    My last orgasm was on the 2nd of January. I have been in chastity every day since (during the day time). So far it's been fairly easy to do. From experience I know that it starts to get harder around day 10-14, before it settles into "business as usual". My longest stretch without orgasm last year was 57 days.

    This morning I weighed 80.3 kilograms. Still too much to allow the orgasm on February 1st.

    Today my Wife will see her lover and they will have an extended sex session, so my mood is: :D:+1:
     
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    please @McGyver it cos you new to it all i spect and after a bit it will be better for you. i hope it is anyway.
     
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    Day 10 of being locked. Going well so far. Weight this morning was 79.9 kilograms. Nice to break that 80 barrier. Still a way to go.
     
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    Resolutions like that are a good way to start the New Year. A focus on being healthier and more respectful of your wife are always useful goals.
     
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    After chastity on and off since last July under Madame Vanilla's watch, I started this year with one very simple resolution: no more masturbation.
     
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    Congratulations I takes focus and effort. Last two years shed 60 pounds. Covid has been a major challenge due to restrictions.

    Keep up the good work.
     
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    Good luck! I've been heavy (about 90kg or 200lbs, when I should be about 170) for several years. I actually gained weight after locking up. Luckily (in a sense) my wife/KH likes fat guys, and isn't really concerned about it. I think she kind of prefers it.
     
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    For me still working to continue reduce. But as I reduce my belly the gynecomastia top has not reduced as hoped. It becomes more noticeable in a general view. Since she switched me to her Doctor now, that was discussed, she said I could potentially gain size the breast tissue can prioritize holding the fatty deposits as needed. I really did not want to hear that as well as need to schedule me back for another mammogram. This will make the third time, she recommends at least every other year for me. Wife asked why not annual as she does.

    Answer was if my breasts develop enlarged mammary ducts that would change the frequency. I have been holding about the same for about 3 year's. Surgery is only other option, very expensive and not eligible to insurance says it elective cosmetic.
     
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    :)
     
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    Indeed a fashion statement.
     
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    My wife suggested this after I read her your post.
    My Lady suggests that your wife amend your NY Res. to include that in addition to not being allowed an orgasm on the 1st of the month should you not be in compliance, but should include the cum must be hands free and you be given a time limit on the attempt to cum.
    Additionally, she believes that if you fail the first time you don't get to cum for that month, OK, the second failure , you must show at least 5 females (of your wife's choosing) and you tell them all your conditions.
    Should there be a third, you have to post yourself in your cage to humiliate yourself to 5 additional females and 5 males, then you must ask each of the females and males to roll the dice and hold your key for a day matching each of the dots on the dice. (with luck that would be 15 people and the absolute minimum would be 30 days, the maximum would be 180 days) ((just hope you don't have to do anything special for them to roll the dice for you)). Have fun with our goals and I do hope personally that you get to cum each month, (hope you are not made to have them ruined if you do get to cum)
     
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    Interesting ideas here. About the cum without your hands, would I be allowed to use tools or toys such as a Fleshlight?
     
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