New Year - New Journey

Hi @Allen1987 @LesterBallard @El Guapo thanks for the messages.

Hi @Allen1987 my main problem with cages has been the diameter of the base ring. The largest base ring for the HT (50mm) was very tight and rubbed a few raw spots whenever I tried it, even with only gradually building up time spent in it. So I was out of it recovering more than I was in it. And there aren't many cheap knock-offs with base rings larger than 50mm to trial. So i went with a custom made steel cage. But the larger base ring was a mismatch for the standard cage diameter, so a testicle would pop out all the time ouch!! I could manage the nights, but would usually pop out in the morning. At some stage I will need to go back and get the base ring re-sized. Just gotta work out what size

A couple of months ago I found a knock off Evotion Wearables with a 52mm base ring, so I decided to go for that as an expt. But that has 5 separate parts that don't click together. I reckon I need 3 pairs of hands just to keep all the bits in place while I try to get myself into it. And all the bits pinch.

So i gave the cage thing a rest for a while. Last week I decided to try again. The custom steel lasted all of 30 minutes before I popped out. But the HT has been working well. No sore bits so far - 6 days now without taking it off. I will have a brief unlock tomorrow for cleaning/shaving. Then back into it.

@El Guapo
Hiccups with the device and being mostly unlocked is a pain. But great that the honour system is working for you. As many people say, it is mostly in the mind. But having a cage on is a good insurance plan

 

Just a quick update on the previous post. I ended Up wearing the HT for about 2 weeks - longest continual lock up I have achieved. So I thought everything was finally starting to sort itself out. But then the top end of the tube started to cut into the top of my cock (and has left a chastity battle scar). It took a while to heal up. So that is he end of the HT for me.

Recently I have started back using the custom steel of and afternoon and night and taking it off whenever a testicle pops out. Not the ideal solution, At some stage I will get the base ring of the custom steel resized. Just have to work out what that size should be. So this is still a work in progress.

 

My wife and I started chastity at the beginning of this year. Largely it has been about her choosing if/when we have sex and me abstaining in the meantime. At times I have been locked (see previous posts), but mostly I’m on the honour system.


My wife doesn’t get the concept of me pleasuring her and her cumming while I don’t get to cum. She thinks that isn’t fair to me. I have tried to reassure her that this is all good.


Last night was the first time that we have had sex with me being locked the whole time. While we were playing I told her that I wasn’t going to cum and I was going to stay locked while I gave her pleasure (I know, topping … I think of it more as giving a gentle nudge). I hope she saw that I was quite happy giving her pleasure without her having to reciprocate. Kissing and licking her was great for me. Hopefully this will help her realise that I totally enjoy being with her and it isn’t mean for her not to do anything with my dick.

I also mentioned to her that one of the female members here posted about the benefits of chastity for women (https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/does-chastity-benefit-women.29101/). And it might be useful for her to read it to get a woman’s point of view on the benefits of male chastity. So hopefully she will have a look.

 

Hi Guys
My beautiful Wife @Carlsy has just signed up as a CM member. Please make her welcome. She is still coming to terms with all of this chastity stuff. @Carlsy is the love of my life and I really want to do the best I can for her and us. @Carlsy I love you til ever.

 

Hi @Breathe and @Carlsy Thank you for the welcome. I know the dynamics of our relationship aren't the same as your relationship with @_and_smile. But maybe there are a few things that @Carlsy can talk to you about that might be of benefit to her. I totally value our virtual friendship and hopefully @Carlsy can become friends with you as well.

 

Locktober 2018
Well my first Lockober is done and dusted. My objective for the month was to be locked every night and as long as possible the next day. I made it till 26 October being locked every night - but had to stay unlocked on the night of 27 October because of soreness. But I managed the rest of the time locked at night. A couple of times I went 36 hours locked continually. Overall I was locked about 70% of the time during Loctober. Now see if I can manage being locked every night in NOvember.

The night I was unlocked I got reminded of the unrestrained night time erections. I had almost forgotten what those were like lol. Talk about Rock Hard!

 

@Breathe I am an undergraduate for a Bachelor of Chastity. You have got your Masters Degree (should that be your Mistress Degree?) and going for your PhD - which you will get High Distinctions for.