Hello I hve been werinf the exobelt extreme on and off for 8 weeks. The longest I have worn it has been 6 days and had tottake it off because it rubbed me raw. My wife is vanilla/ sub, but has been supportive of this move (I came out to her of me needs/desires in Deemeber). We have been married 22 years. When i told her about kink, chastity and t need for pain she was neot even aware of these thngs. So far it has worked out fairly well, she has remarked how loving I have become. She has agreed to comtrol all of my orgasm's and is considering letting me see a sadist on the side for my pain needs. Last night she gave me my 2nd prostate massage and I had my first O in 3 weeks and although it was through me fucking her it actually was quit painful when I released. have others experienced this..that after some time the ) actually seems numbing?