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    #1 Holsteredgat, Jan 2, 2020
    greetings all
    Just started with self locking for 2020. I’ve read many posts here and maybe I don’t fit perfectly, but hoping to learn and maybe make some friends along the way.
    Middle age guy with lifelong over active sex drive. Married over 25 years to beautiful woman who is unfortunately very vanilla and blasé about sex in general, though we still have 4-5 times a month and she is game for a few out of the box activities like some breast bondage and regular anal at her request and preference.
    I’ve been masturbating multiple times per day since forever and like many, have found it to be easier and more desirable than actual sex a lot of the time.
    I was intrigued by chasity cages as a way to maybe stave off some of those self gratifying urges that overtake me throughout the day. I also get quite aroused at the idea of edging and ruined orgasm, especially while locked up.
    I bought a cheap SS device to try out and it’s going ok so far, but reading here I see I’m going to be much happier with a custom device.
    I bought a SS 3.5 inch cage with a 50mm hinged ring. The cage is awesome as I have to stuff even my limp dick in it but the ring is way too small and takes me a good 20 minutes of work to get it around my package.
    Anyway I’m gonna try it for a while. I practiced for a few hours at a time this last week and I have now been locked continuously since Tuesday night.
    I have a little time lock safe and just put the keys in yesterday and set it for 48 more hours.
    I will say it has not, so far, diminished my desire for porn or my desire to cum and the mounting frustration is becoming arousing by itself.
    I know it’s a long post but thx for hanging in. I also know this doesn’t fit the purists idea of chastity but I’ll see what direction it takes.
    All the best-
     
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    #2 JKisChaste, Jan 2, 2020
    Welcome to the neighborhood @Holsteredgat You’ll fit it here just fine I reckon. Enjoy the journey. Cheers.
     
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    #3 Chris hilsdon, Jan 2, 2020
    Hi thanks I'm thinking of being caged
     
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    #4 jemima, Jan 2, 2020
    @Holsteredgat hello and welcome to here and i hope that you like it here as well and i hope that your cage help you to stop make mess a lot of times evry day.
     
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    #5 MissyB, Jan 2, 2020
    Welcome to our community and feel free to explore chastity any way that suits you.
     
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    #6 Drews, Jan 3, 2020
    Welcome. I am locked for the same reasons of self gratification and a vanilla wife with a much weaker sex drive. My desires for porn and sex have not diminished two years into wearing a cage but I cannot self gratify so I am still always ready for my wife. It took a lot of long discussions to get her on board. I was always begging for sex or jerking off and not being into it when she was. She finally saw how the cage changed everything. Might be a good discussion topic with your wife. You will find a number of us here using the cage for the same reason. It is whatever works best for you and your wife. I bought a number of SS cages that were never quite right. Once we decided to stick with cages I bought a custom Mature Metal Jailbird and it is perfect. Can wear it continuously without even knowing I am wearing it. Good luck!
     
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    #7 LesterBallard, Jan 3, 2020
    Hello and good luck
     
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    #8 Gagglover, Jan 3, 2020
    welcome! i am a newbie of the site too!
     
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    #9 madams-sissysub, Jan 4, 2020
    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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