I have been looking for tips so please do share but.. I self locked two sundays ago now and finally built up the courage gave my wife the key yesterday. I had sent her https://happy-marriage.neocities.org/ last week and told her to read it. We spoke last night about what it was about- shes still a bit confused and saying she feels guilty about the orgasms being one side. We proceeded to kiss and i ended up fingering her and licking her out, we cuddled for a while. I love that i can uddle with no expectation of having an orgasm, i always felt like i was using her when we kissed as there was that expectation but now that is gone. Sleep has been a problem and very broken since putting on the cage but the cage is almost second nature now. I havent had a proper erection in ten days and havent cum in the same time. i am very horny now but want to see how far we can push this. i have bought her some underwear and a maids outfit of shein to wear which hopefulyl she will at the weekend. Main things are: how do i get her to overcome her feeling of guilt? how do i get my very passive wife to want to boss me around more? tips of improving sleep or will i just get used to it?