New to the core of chastity

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    Hello everybody! Always played around with the chastity idea on another kink-play forum but decided to join Chastity Mansion for it's all about chastity and related. Basically, I'd like to broaden my keyholding abilities and eventually get locked myself. Or should I switch these things up and start by locking myself first?

    Does anyone have any suggestions where to start on this forum (besides here :p)? Maybe reading on the topics but which threads or where.

    Edit: seems I can't change the title. (may be bad)
     
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    Welcome. Look through most of the forums. They all have a ton of very useful information, depending on what you are into.

    The Tower is a great place to start though.
     
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    Welcome to the Mansion. I've always been a believer in walking in someone else's shoes. To totally understand what it's like to be a Dom over someone I believe you should be a submissive first. This isn't always the case and this is only my Opinion.

    You have already started so please continue where ever your comfortable.
     
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    I didn't expect such a quick and lively community. Thank you both. :)
    Yes. Although it doesn't apply to everyone; it's good to be the submissive before you enter the dominant realm. I've been a submissive for quite a few years now (in the M/s relation sense) and I'm starting to be more dominant as well as getting more and more interested in chastity play. Still undecided whether I should start off with holding someone else's keys or my own keys. Maybe Carlilock or Emlalock can be of use.
     
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    Welcome to Chastity Mansion.
    Your thought about holding your own keys for a while is a very good one! It will give you a chance to understand some of the feelings and challenges involved in wearing a chastity device, and will give you a great perspective when you hold the keys for someone else.

    There are lots of ways to make your keys less accessible. One of my favorite ones is freezing them in a container of water.

    Enjoy the site and the journey!.
     
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    Interesting idea. Why can't you hold someone else's key and also hold your own. You could be the Dom to the other person and still experience what it's like to be locked. I don't see any reason you can't do both. I haven't read any where in the rule book saying you can't be a Dom and a sub at the same time. ( their is No rule book ) go for it. It sounds like a wild ride.
     
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    Sounds best that I start increasing my duration in the chastity before putting others in it. Though, switching is fine so anyone coming my way may get locked up as well. I've always wondered how it would work out when two people put themselves in chaste and give each other the key so maybe that would be fun to try out. I think either they make a deal giving each other's keys relatively quick or they both keep onto the key because the other doesn't give theirs as well ("you first, no you first")

    Freezing the key sounds like a good way to start with. Then I'll probably move on to locking the keys using a numeric lock to something high and unreachable for the lock on my chastity belt. I can photograph the random code for Emlalock and wait for the (long?) session to finish.
     
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