New to locking

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    Hi. I have a penis but sometimes wish I didn't. I'm interested in denial and feminization and sissification. Currently looking for the right cage. Hoping to talk to people about being locked, challenges or tasks, etc..

    Hope to talk soon. :)
     
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    Hi Jack and welcome
    There’s plenty of info here at the mansion and on the internet in general. I’ve only been locking for about 6 mos and am currently on my second cage
    The first was a Utimi which came with a 3” cage and 3 different size rings. I realized rather quickly that the cage was too big and bulky but it let me determine ring size pretty easily. Afterwards I went to a ZCLanier with a 1.75” ring and 2” cage and after a little adjustment time am able to go 24/7. Probably around 17 days with no issues.
    Both on Amazon for around $25US.
    Some things to think about are measurements- you can google for measuring directions
    The length of the cage should be the flaccid penis length. The ZC gives me the opportunity to stand while urinating which is a pus for me due to work and such. These are just my opinions and everyone is different so take this into consideration. There are plenty with spacers and adjustments but I wanted to keep it simple- at least at first.
    Most importantly is if it hurts take it off
    Short runs at first to get the feel
    Good luck
     
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    Welcome. You'll find quite a few on here with similar desires and needs. Hope you find the information and support you need.
     
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    Just curious, do you have a partner or are you single? It makes a big difference in the chastity experience. Chastity can still be fun for single people, but the challenges are different.
     
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    What challenge do you suggest for single people?
     
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    I am not suggesting challenges, rather stating that the difficulties of chastity are different for single people.
     
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    I do have a partner, who is rather supportive, but I have trouble bringing the topic up to discuss.
     
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    Welcome. You will find helpful info here. Just ask.
     
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