Been lurking for some months and have enjoyed many of the topics. My wife and have and been forming our version of FLR for about 2 years and it has slowly grown. At this point I am locked 24/7 with the exception of her play time and occasional special events. (Pool party was last) currently on 18th day of denial an her plan was less than 12 for the year. We are enjoying our new adventure and it has revitalized our marriage. I have learned quickly this takes a lot of communication and trust.
You've hit all the important points. Communication ,trust, our version, time etc. looking forward to hearing more about your adventures (pool party?). Welcome to the Mansion Enjoy
Welcome. We are also new to this, but looking forward to the journey. Again, welcome and looking forward to more posts.
Welcome and you are on the right path to success. Take baby steps and communicate. My wife and I would set aside 15 minutes a week to discuss what works and what does not. Life got so much simpler when we just had one rule, she makes the rules and can change them any time she wants. Took the chore out of being a key holder for her. I am glad to hear that you are being practical about when you lock up. Sex games stop being fun when they interfere or cause discomfort in your non sexual life. Have fun and good luck.