Hubby and I have been married for almost 7 years, and our sex life slowly dwindled due to boredom. Hubby came across chastity, and since I'm a bit of a control freak and he's a bit of a submissive kinda guy, he took interest in this and brought it up to me. I was definitely shocked, I'd never heard of chastity for guys, or that it was even a thing nowadays. I really shouldn't have been surprised that this exists because there is all kinds of kinky stuff out there. But hubby seemed pretty passionate about wanting to try this to improve our sex life, so I checked it out and of course with my personality type, I loved the idea. Lock and key, no worries about hubby rubbing one out behind my back (which I hate even though it's a "normal guy thing"), and being in ultimate control. I'm happy with the arrangement but with this being relatively new, I still have some apprehensions and feelings of guilt, but the excitement of wearing the key around my neck, having him please me, denying his orgasms, and performing punishments are overshadowing my apprehension. I just need to be a bit more assertive. Usually I only get the assertiveness after a couple glasses of wine, which is when I become the most horny. I just need to release my inner dom and let the wild side kick in more frequently. Anyhow, that's my intro. I'm hoping to pick up some tips and tricks, but also looking forward to getting to know others in similar situations.