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    #1 Ivan, Sep 14, 2019
    Hi I am new here and new to Chastity in general, I don’t know if I should ask this here but if someone could help me it would be great. As I am new to Chastity I wanted to ask what’s the best device/material to start with? Also I don’t have a key holder so I wondered if you could give me some advices for self-locking. Thanks in advance!
     
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    #2 Slave_face, Sep 14, 2019
    Welcome Ivan.

    As far as devices go, there are hundreds.

    I’m personally wearing a Cherry Keeper and love it. As with all plastic devices it can be a bit harder to keep clean and can get a bit of odour about it.

    I’m self locking in that I have the key and can remove my device any time I like. Having said that, I only remove it for hygiene and health issues.

    ONLY Mistress Lux removes it for BDSM play and hopefully cumming.

    For me, chastity is about control, whether it’s you or s KH that’s in control.
     
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    #3 Anonoman, Sep 14, 2019
    eBay or amazon are good places to start looking - lots of cheap cages. Be aware that the quality and security are often a bit dubious. The plastic Holy Trainer are quite good and come with a number of different sized base rings.
    How about a ‘kitchen safe’ with a timer to start?
     
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    #4 LucyAnne, Sep 14, 2019
    Welcome to the Mansion, I started with a cb6000 which is a good cage for starting of in.
    As for self locking as I have said before to others the cage is only half the equation the other half is willpower for self locking you should remember that you will need to think about safety and emergencies for access to your key.
    When your starting off lock up an hour or 2 at first then a few hours and then a day so you get used to the feel and can check for chaffing and problems before you start locking more long term.
     
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    #5 latexbound, Sep 14, 2019
    Welcome. Sure you want to be here? ;)
    I suggest you spend some time looking through forum threads. There is heaps of info here with every conceivable device discussed to some extent. Start there and join the chatroom when ya ready!
     
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    #6 MissyB, Sep 14, 2019
    Welcome to our community. Like others have said look at some of the threads and you'll see info on your questions. i self lock, so you can participate that way as well.
     
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    #7 madams-sissysub, Sep 14, 2019
    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    #8 Creeper_23, Sep 14, 2019
    Hello and welcome to CM. There is lots of good advice floating around in here. As someone else said, take it slow starting out.
     
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    #9 LesterBallard, Sep 15, 2019
    Hello and welcome. Don't try to do too much too soon. Don't think about long term caging. Just get used to wearing it. Enjoy it. Good luck
     
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    #10 sissy_christine, Sep 15, 2019
    Welcome to CM
     
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