Hello Don't really know how to start, so I will just jump right in with both feet. I'm defiantly new to this. It all started because of guilt. Guilt from masturbating. I felt like I was cheating on my wife. Who I love dearly. I had no control over the urges to do the deed. Finally I couldn't take it anymore, I was looking on line and happened across these chastity cages. Well the brain started to work and it seemed obvious that I needed to be in chastity. So I ordered one off line. It came in the mail last week. Well I tried it on it felt comfortable. Ok now what? I decided 4 days ago that I would just confess to my wife what had been going on. First I locked my cage on. After dinner my wife and I went out on the back porch and smoked a cigarette. I was very nervous. I put my hand in my pocket and took out the keys and slide them over to her. She took them and asked what they went to. I told her I had something to tell her and to hear me out first. I confessed everything to her and she had a hurt look in her eyes. She asked me if it was her fault or she wasn't pretty enough. I quickly reassured her that it wasn't her fault it was mine and mine alone. I was addicted to masturbation. I THEN told her that I had a solution and that's were the keys come in. I told her I was wearing a chastity device on my penis and that she had the keys to it and she could do whatever she wanted with those keys. What happened next really did surprise me. She put the keys in her pocket. We talked more about my problem and the chastity. She agreed that I should be in chastity, which was a relief to me. Then she wanted to see it. She actually took hold of it and pulled it. I guess to see if it really was locked on and would stay. Well it's been 4 days so far and she told me that this is kinda cool and likes the way it looks on me. She has taken the keys and hidden them from me. I know now she is serious about keeping it on me. It's funny cause once I gave her those keys, I felt a ton of relief and apprehension. I gave my choice away to my wife. I haven't asked her if she is going to unlock me or not yet. I think I know the answers already. Did I do the right thing by starting this?