Dear forum members, i am new to this forum as well as to the idea of chastity. i am Mistress Jackie's slave, and indeed i am very lucky! Chastity will be a critical element and i am committed to it. After some research, i bought the cb 6000. Before i tried it on the first time, i read about spacer and rings and was aware that it might take some time to get used to it and to find the right fit. However, i do have two major problems and i am hoping that the more experienced members can help me with it. my first problem is that i am excited by the idea of being in chastity for my Mistress. Although She permitted me to cum I could not get flaccid enough. i tried ice water, warm water, thinking about unattractive topics, nothing seems to help to get me into the cb6000. After almost three hours i was finally exhausted enough to get it. That is clearly too long and not aaceptable for my Mistress. my second problem is that after 12 hours of wearing the device, I was so swollen, that it lasted a couple of days to get the swelling down to a more normal level. i sincerely appreciate any advice that might help me to overcome these issues. As a side note, i am not circumsized and wonder whether this might have to do with it and if the cb 6000 just won't work in that case.