New to chastity cage

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    Hi everyone. A little background on what led me here. About 10 years ago my wife, due to physical problems, had lost all interest in sex. I respected her situation and resolved myself to having no sex other than masturbation. As it wasn't her fault I couldn't justify extramarital sex. We were 50 then. By chance about a year ago I learned about male chastity and chastity cages. I decided this was a form of sex play I could indulge in by self locking, with watching porn while locked a form of solo teasing. After trial and error I purchased a Jailbird and modified a strap-on harness to support the cage and not have the cage constantly pulling on my balls. I would lock myself up for days or a week and then give myself a few days off. Today I've added a refinement to this play by downloading a random spin the wheel app. On it I've added different lock times such as 1,2, 3,4 more days or 1 week, or 1 month, as well as 1day off, unlock to have an orgasm (and lock back up), a release for an hour's edging, and release for a ruined orgasm, locking back up after both the edging and the ruined orgasm. This should be a good test of willpower. So anyway I guess I've been in a form of self locking chastity for 10 years without locking anything. That's where I am now. Sorry for the long post.
     
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    Welcome
     
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    hello and welcome. Pleased to hear you've developed a system that works for you. Sounds good.
     
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    Thanks for making me welcome. This is a great, open-minded refuge.
     
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    Welcome to CM..I myself are new to this.. Does your wife know you are playing with self chastity?
     
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    She does but has no interest in it.
    Just took the first spin of my Wheel of Chastity., as I call it. The wheel landed on 1 Month, the longest lock up period possible. It stopped just past 1 Day. This is what makes the Wheel interesting. :lock:
     
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    So when you are locked up, where are the keys? Are you the self honor system?
     
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    Self honor system. I figure I'm comittedI to this and won't cheat. If I do there's no point in doing chasttity. I just keep the keys n my desk.
     
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