Hi, This time i am posting in the vanilla thread because me and my husband are more more an usual vanilla couple than a in a sub/Dom relationship. See my last posts: https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/why-he-is-staying-locked.30532/ But one thing is very different from other couples and friends of us....my husband is in permanent chastity and I want him to be. Sometimes is hard to live the flr lifestyle when there are businesses meetings, family affairs or simply the kids yelling around. So we startet with a new agreement and put it in our chastity contract. We agreed that hubby will take over all household things including cooking and shopping foodstuff. Every evening when the kids are in bed he has to start his special ritual: He will knee in front of me and has to ask if he can do something good for me (massage, shaving etc.) and after that he will get rated for the behavior of the day. After that he will get a judgement. When he was a good boy he gets teased or he is allowed to pamper my holy parts. When he did mistakes or he was a bad boy he gets his punishment. This ritual is called amplification ritual and will leed in his subservient mood I like so much. All the time he is locked in his cage and he doesn’t know if he gets any release or sexual interactions. We do this rituals for more than a week now and I can say I never had so much fun and was pampered so much. AND after work i can relax, everything is done....a good life for a KH. Have a nice day TKiM
Congratulations @TheKeyIsMine you found the secret to a happy FLR relationship. What Works for You. You don’t have to live up to the standards set by someone else, whats important is your relationship and your happiness together. What Works for You. Congratulations.
That's how it is for us. I do the shopping, cooking, and pay bills etc. but when my son goes to bed my Mistress is in 100% in charge. I do whatever she asks of me. That's what seems to work for us. Theres cookie cutter standard for FLR, it's what ever works for you
We are retired and now I do everything except cooking the evening meal. Son and 3 grand kids live with us but when we are alone the dress code is CFnm or just my underwear. My older brother lives here but he has his on rooms on one end of the house. He does come out to the main part of the house but is used to seeing me in nothing but my cage or just a thong/panties. Like was said, the rule is whatever works for you!
It’s nearly three weeks since hubbys last release. He wears his cage all the time and does his rituals every day when kids are in bed. For sure he takes them to bed. After that he cooks for me and serves the dinner. He is not allowed to eat the same food. We bought a little bowl for him and he is allowed to eat in front of me on the floor. The last few days he got some dry bread cut in small pieces. The funniest thing is that this was his idea to feel more devoted and as a slaveboy. Yesterday some friends of mine came over for bbq. He was serving the drinks, grilled and cleans up. When they were gone late in the evening he was allowed to eat some of the leftovers in his bowl but this time on our terrace. I didn’t know but this behavior gives me a real nice kick and I feel much more dominant. Later he was allowed to help me out with a nice worship down between my legs. I love it...and yes he loves it too....very much ! Bye TKIM
Sounds like a wild ride for you two. I'm sure he's loving it. When your submissive desires take hold, it is better to just give in and let the woman take charge.
Fantastic story, really happy for you enjoy your new found dominance, and may your partner be happy in his permanent servitude and subjugation
Totally agree! Each of us is different, and each of our relationships is different, so pleased you have found what works for you.