New poll...IS SHE EVER GRUMPY?

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by borbulls1961, Sep 11, 2021.

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DOES YOUR LADY GET REALLY GRUMPY?

  1. No, almost never

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  2. Yes, an hour or two, no longer

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  3. Yes, a day or two, but no bother

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  4. Yes a couple days or more, every month like a hedgehog

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  5. Yes, too long, Id like out of chastity then

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  1. borbulls1961
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    borbulls1961 Madame Vanilla's property

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    Well my good wife sometimes goes into a grump that can last 2-3 days!

    And when that happens I end up not feeling I'm in to her so much...in fact wanting to stay in a different room to her when possible so as to avoid strangling her although Im a pretty even keel myself. And ofcourse a steel chastity device seems like a drag at those moments as does convincing my wife to keep me in chastity.
    Id actually be happy to go into my corner and rub one out.
    I dont even want to touch her.

    This happens about once a month, though she is past her monthly periods...

    And then by miracle she gets over the grump and becomes lovely. And I start needing to fuck her. Desperately.

    Do your ladies drive you up the wall, regularly? All comments welcome...
     
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    With the heightened emotional side of beingnin chastity. I go from having a nice time being denied, feeling really close and horny for her. If we fight, I'm usually devastated that I've upset her, even if it really wasn't my fault. I feel down, and that's when I start questioning my choices. Couple of fights ago though, she told me, instead of throwing the key at me, she took it from her bag and hid it on her person.

    I'm sure we have moments of regret because this new dynamic is hard for both of us. But we can't go backwards.
     
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    My wife's monthly grumpiness has never been that bad, but it is definitely there.

    Every few months, she'll have one of those irrational grumpinesses, in which she actively finds fault. I recognize it for what it is, and I'm content to be present for her to work out whatever the frustration is that she's feeling (although I do not like it, at all). Fortunately, she's not at all sadistic, so it's only a verbal lashing. (Although, even though I am not into pain, I think I'd almost rather have her work it out with a paddle than her words, since that probably hurts a lot less.)

    All that said, there is one upsetting trend: COVID. These last two years have put a heavy strain on her. Part of it is the constant stream of bad news, which she has been keeping on top of like someone watching a slow motion train wreck. Part of it is the isolation. Part of it is the worry for our children, and then (oh my!) our extended families -- who all seem to truly desire Darwin Awards and Biggest Spreader Awards, inspired by a certain con man. This COVID bullshit has put more of a damper on our love life than anything else. Fuck COVID.
     
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    i agree, covid has a lot to answer for! It has affected my madam in kind of the same ways,
    And we’re sick of it to.
     
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    Yeah we havent got Covid...but it is a slow train wreck in our lives.
    The things we miss out, that our children miss out...sure nobody is struggling to breathe, but there is still lots of grief.
    Fuck you Sars-COV-2.
     
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    What difference does it make? She's allowed.
     
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    You should quote the part that you are responding to; otherwise, it's hard to know which comment you're asking about.
     
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    My Goddess is never grumpy really. She can be a bit hard to manage if real world stuff has her balancing too much life and all of it's stressors, and in the midst of very anxious feelings. These can be very emotional moments for us, and yes, she has thrown the key at me, and I have gotten all angry and weird at times. We are learning together, and on more occasions than not, support each other through managing it.

    I really wouldn't be able to say she has ever been "grumpy" in my understanding of the word.

    As for me, masc me, is usually really quite a grouch.

    Femme me? Well, she's a goddamned delight, tyvm.
     
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    I mean... anyone who said no... they are lying. Everyone has good days and bad days.... come on...
     
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    None of the answers fit.

    Monthly? No. Daily. Yes.
     
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    I suppose you haven't been around that many generally happy, kind, wonderful females that are taken care of in the right way.

    I'm not "Grumpy" (defined as: bad-tempered and irritable) by nature, so you know. But, neither am I Dopey, Doc, Happy, Bashful, Sneezy or Sleepy. I am Goddess Violet. Thank you.

    My sissy isn't lying, she's bound by contact not to, and would be punished if she did. Our agreement; No secrets, No lies. I don't appreciate you insinuating that she is.

    Take care,
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    I think the real question is, how do you keep the chastity dynamic when you aren’t getting along with the one holding your key.

    The answer for me is that the two situations have no connection, except that during those times I am fairly certain I won’t be getting unlocked. Our dynamic may be different than others, for us me being locked is the default. Sick, worried, stressed, sad, happy, on vacation, working, and yes even if one of us is upset. Once you come to terms with that, it’s easier to deal with the problem at hand. Was she wrong? Sometimes, and I don’t handle it any different and will stick to my guns key or no key. If I’m wrong, we’ll it’s time to make it right and wait for her to get back to normal.

    Last year we had a death in the family that crushed her for awhile. Sex, chastity, our FLR, was certainly not a priority. Could I have said “hey, this isn’t any fun or fair for me to be locked up, let’s quit until you are ready to start again?” Yes I certainly could have. I didn’t, because I stay locked until she unlocks me…period. I also would not want to burden her with all this while she was upset, sad, angry, worried, stressed, or sick.

    If this was a fun fore play activity, I would definitely call her out and ask to be free while she was upset. This is full time for us, so I stay locked rain or shine.
     
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    Thanks for these first comments, they are fascinating.

    Even more is the low level of respondants to readers...almost as if this would be a taboo topic...
     
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    My case is similar to @Nicoftime except I have asked once or twice to be let out when the disagreement lasted more than a day. Didnt work of course, her answer was along the lines of "so now you think I've lost my mind, too?!!! NO you are never getting out of that cage, especially when I am upset!" I will say it lightened the mood a little bit.
     
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    You seem grumpy now, but that's just my opinion. Best luck to you.
     
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    It's easier for me. "Was she wrong?" No. Never.

    That was easy :p

    Exactly. Nicely done.
     
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    Dear Self-Proclaimed "King Hippo",

    Just curious, does Nintendo and/or Punch-Out!! approve of this blatant copyright infringement?

    That's called a sense of humor. Perhaps you should look into that definition as well.

    Have a Nice Day!
    ~ lol
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    Very grumpy.
     
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    Please be respectful. This is not an argument to win.
     
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    [QUOTE="King Hippo, post: 479668, member:

    Dear Hippo,

    I don't argue with people who like to try and drag my down to their level, and certainly not online. There is no argument here.

    Do keep in mind, my words are flat and without tone, as you read them. You're free to interpret them any way you'd like. I know Myself, and my lovely sissy knows Me, that's all I'm going to concern myself with.

    So, take it as you will. I won't be responding or corresponding with you again, if I can help it. I see no point.

    Have a Nice Day,
    Goddess Violet
     
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    Hey man, I'm not the one telling people to look up definitions. All I said was everyone gets grumpy from time to time. I don't understand the issue at all... she seemed pretty grumpy to me.

    Apparently she doesn't argue with people, or try to drag herself down to their level... but she has no problem playing forum tennis, telling people to look words up as if they were too stupid to know what they mean to begin with....

    If you expect people to sit around and let people say things like "I suppose you haven't been around that many generally happy, kind, wonderful females that are taken care of in the right way." Pretty ignorant.

    I mean... it is what it is, lol.
     
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    Yes, She gets grumpy. It's usually my fault. The odd time it isn't my fault, it is work related. In all cases, it can be solved with me doing my job in the home and being a better husband. She is never grumpy for no reason.
     
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    Hippo has three posts in general.

    1. "Communicate"
    2. "Welcome fellow traveller"
    3. The entirety of the rest belittle someone in the thread, usually the OP.


    You came here, as usual, to belittle, and have done a great job. Bravo.

    As you were then. Bye. She hasn't been at all grumpy, she was making fun of you for being pathetic.
     
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    Someone sounds grumpy.
     
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