Hello Chastity Mansion folk, In an effort to spice up my love life with my patient and amazing wife I spent hours sifting through the adult shops online. One click led to another and I saw a chastity device for the first time. I do not like spending money on things I do not understand, and in my research I thankfully stumbled upon this website. Some of the content improved incredibly useful, and helped me analyze my reasoning for moving forward with this. One such member mentioned it helped curb masturbation, and my wife warmed up to the idea when she realized how frequently this was occurring. It was great to start off with coconut oil and I was able to find a nice cotton g-string that stops the cage from moving around too much and causing minor foreskin chafing. Not trying to beat any records for length of time in the device, and we are just getting our feet wet. Looking forward to the journey to come and being apart of this community.