Hi everyone,my name is Tony,i'm 47 years old,and have been interested in femdom since I first read an article in a porn mag when I was about 13.The older I got and the more I read on the subject the stronger my submisive desires became. I've been married for 14 years but I only told my wife about my femdom desires 3 months ago,the first person I've ever told in my life.To my surprise and great relief she didn't hit the roof and file for a divorce,quite the opposite, she was very understanding about it all,the only problem is that being a dominant wife doesn't do anything for her sexually,so here's a question for the wifes/mistresses that read this.What is it that turns you on about the scene, and have you got any suggestions as to how I can get my wife more interested?were most of you dominant anyway or did your feelings gradually change? any advice gratefully recieved. My biggest fantasy is to be chastised and cuckolded,and being made to clean up afterwards but as things are at the present there's no chance of that. Another question honest answers please,is there a chastity device that can be worn 24/7 which is not to conspicuous,comfortable,and can be worn during exercise?I like to keep fit and run ,cycle and row,is there any thing out there that fits the bill?most of the devices i've seen look quite bulky. Thats it for now,quite a long intro but 34 years of frustration is comeing out, Thanks Tone.