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    I've been flirting with chastity for many years. I have several devices, but discovered that I could pull out of any of them that were comfortable enough to wear long term. Another issue I've had with every device is chafing under the base ring. This is not a problem with a cock ring. I think it's maybe the weight of the cage. To mitigate this I have to lubricate that area every day, sometimes multiple times a day.

    So last week, I got a PA. It's 12 gauge, so it will be several months before it's stepped up in size and healed and ready for a new chastity with PA. (But I do love it!)

    I am very interested in knowing about chastity devices with PAs that men have had success with.
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Hey there. Thank you. I'm not as mean as my logo would lead you to believe!
     
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    To deal with your chafing problem, now you have a PA, are you looking at devices without a base ring? If so, have a look at Male Chastity Now, Steelworxx, Evotion Wearables. You’ll also find some on eBay, Amazon etc that like these custom makers, secure a tube/cage portion to the piercing with no base ring.
     
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    Hello and welcome
     
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    Welcome to tha mansiuon.
    As you got a PA you are already in and ready to jump into some highly secure devices.
     
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    Thank you! Yes, I have been looking into these. My PA is new, needs to be stretched, so it will be several months yet before I get to try something like that. Looking forward to it.
     
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    Welcome to the PA club! I skipped the stretching process and was pierced at 8ga. Now at a 6. I already had a very wearable Cobra by kink3d, and I easily added a captive bead ring. Long term comfort without the ability to pullout is exactly what the wife and I needed.
     
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    Hello and welcome hope you find what you are looking for and welcome to the PA club I was pierced at a 12 and right away stretched to a 8 i am now a 2 went all the way to 00 but it was to heavy
     
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    Ha Ha. Yeah, I was planning on stretching to an 8, but I like it so much, I might continue after that!
     
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    Thanks. I looked at the Kink3D Cobra and I didn't see anything for a PA. I guess you added something yourself to work for that. Do you wear it without the base ring. That's one thing I wanted to get rid of the base ring as it always causes chaffing for me.
     
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    Mine is an “0” gauge PA. My KH likes to experiment with various locks.
     

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    Yes, I simply integrated the ring by slipping it thru one of the openings in the cage.
    I still use the base ring. It helps offset the weight, otherwise it feels like everything is hanging on the end of my shaft. If you are experiencing discomfort from the base ring, it might be too small. Wish you best of luck finding a device that suits you.
     
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    Wow. I love that! Awesome photos.
     
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    Welcome to our community. I hope you find it helpful and entertaining.
     
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    Hello and welcome to Chastity Mansion. Nice seeing another pa member.
     
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    Hello and welcome. I did not realize how many guys with PAs are in this group.

    I was pierced at 8 gauge and pretty much jumped sizes naturally till I got to 2 gauge. After that I got a Rigid Model 5. The fit and security are great; the wait time not so much.
     
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    Cool. The piercer I worked with doesn't like to start with anything larger than a 12, so it will be serveral months before I'm ready for a device with built-in PA. Initially, I was thinking of just going to an 8, but now I'm leaning toward a 6.
     
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    4 gauge is a good size for chastity security. I am at 2 gauge (larger) and I do not regret it at all.
     
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    I definitely felt a sense of belonging to a specific group of people who get a "high" off of putting holes in their genitalia. Made me feel kinda badass lol
     
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    PA done 2.5 yrs ago. 10g n I gradually went up into a 2g. The jump from 4g to 2g was hard! Thats a big stretch. Actually caused problems with the piercing (sorness, pimple head) n have gone back to 4g n its much more comfortable n healing. As for using the piercing to hold a cage on?.. No way!
     
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    Why not using the piercing to hold the cage if you don't mind me asking?
     
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    Most are too heavy n dont want to risk doing anything to the piercing. I just wear a normal cagecwith room for the PA ring n alls good.
    Really in the end… a PA is nothing but dick jewelry.
     
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    I find a ball trap cage with a PA fixing to be most comfortable. I use a belt to support the cage and keep it close to the body. The tube type cages qith a PA hook are uncomfortable to me. They pinch at the post and all the weight hangs off the piercing itself.

    Currently have a Rigid No 5 with the standard hook to fit my 2 gauge PA.
     
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