New kh question: Will it shrink? Are erections different?

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    But the MD is talking about men that can't get hard. I get hard, it's just in my cage. At times I'm probably harder longer than uncaged. I don't think the data necessarily matches those that are caged. It would depend on the rules set by your domme as well I guess. A permanent situation with no room for any growth at all...is that possible? I might not feel like it's a full erection all the time l, but cage allows for a feeling of engorgement.
     
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    No room to grow in my cage.
    If you have room you need. A smaller cage
     
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    Read through the many, many, many threads
    on here about this subject.
     
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    Just because someone repeats an old mantra doesn't make it true. Just because someone is intelligent enough to write doesn't mean what they write is intelligent. If there isn't room for any kind of arousal at all is clearly what I said.
     
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    This might be a tangent but...after 10 weeks without the key in the lock I had two weeks out. I would sense myself getting aroused like I had in the cage only to feel myself not getting aroused at all.

    I wonder if the cage multiplies andmagnified a lot of the sensed arousal.

    Just a thought.
     
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    I agree that I can be aroused without being hard, it's an interesting nice feeling, and something I couldn't do BC. But there is a big difference between ED and a stifled erection, or a "Soul Erection" I think I just coined a new chastity expression.

    "Frustratisfying" is another of mine.
     
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    I used to think this as well. I wore my Lori 8A (a ring-less, piercing secured design) daily for about 3 years. I noticed that the head of my penis and first inch or so wouldn't "fill up" as much when unlocked and erect, and we both figured it would just take some time to go back to normal when/if it was time for me to be unlocked for a significant amount of time.

    This, however, did not happen. After divorcing, I remained unlocked for over a year and the end of my penis was and remains noticeably smaller when erect. It doesn't disturb me, and my KH doesn't find it unpleasant so I don't care really. The girth of the remainder of the penis remained the same, it's just the tip that lost a bit of girth.

    I haven't a clue about shrinkage with ball-trap devises or full belts. But considering I used to think it was all a myth, I think it's important to share what I know, and that is that it's not 100% impossible.
     
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    Well that's semantics or maybe pedantics? What @MrsBR_Saiph said is pretty accurate and sincere. Well said! to the Lady.
     
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    It's more accuracy or correctness, and claims it's a muscle are inaccurate and incorrect.

    Just google it..

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    I wear a really small cage. It is maybe a inch long. I stuff my penis in there and it is forgotten about. I get teased and it tries to get hard, but it has no where to grow. When my Wife(KH) allows me to take the cage off, my penis looks really small. Once or twice a month, my Wife(KH) will take my cage off and tease me and lets me get a full erection. She will either make me masturbate, give me oral or a hand job and makes me go hard and then soft for maybe 15-20 minutes.(No orgasm), just letting it get hard and to stretch it out. Then she lets me go soft and back into the cage until the next time. I haven't noticed that I'm any smaller when erect. JMHO
     
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