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    #1 KHCouple4517, Dec 26, 2018
    First my partner @Couple4517 shared an account as we mostly searched/asked together (ok to be honest, I was to shy to have my own account ;)). That is why now his account is called 'Couple...'

    Now I think I progressed enough to be able to have my own account.

    I got introduced to chastity from my partner about a year ago. I was very surprised, then very reluctant as I come from a vanilla background. But I grew more and more to it, and since 3rd of November 2018 we are in a (trial) FLR.
     
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    #2 Dumb1, Dec 26, 2018
    Hi and welcome officially its always a great pleasure to welcome female members here and i do hope you enjoy your new found fun. We are lucky to have you onboard.
     
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    #3 Ma’ams Slut, Dec 26, 2018
    Welcome to cm

    Plenty of all kind of people here so no need to feel shy or anything. If you Have any questions just ask and I am sure You will get a lot of responses
     
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    #4 Couple4517, Dec 26, 2018
    Welcome :)
     
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    #5 tomf_22033, Dec 26, 2018
    Congrats and welcome.

    I think you'll find some great folks here. So don't be afraid to post and to ask questions.

    As for your partner. Remember this is about your pleasure. Those of us who want this enjoy in giving pleasure to others. So when he whines and gets pouty remind him of the site tagline of "Be Care of what you ask for".

    BTW there is no right and wrong way to do things except that you should make it fun and pleasurable. So welcome to the crazy journey we're on and good luck. And I feel safe in saying that many of us look forward to seeing your posts and helping if we can.
     
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    #6 Lust Moments, Dec 26, 2018
    Would love to hear from "new blood". Welcome :)
     
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    #7 New to cage, Dec 26, 2018
    Welcome to the Mansion!!!!
     
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    #8 LesterBallard, Dec 26, 2018
    Good luck both
     
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    #9 Whitehoseman, Dec 27, 2018
    Welcome. May I ask what changed you from vanilla to being more open?
     
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    #10 cshorts, Dec 27, 2018
    Welcome @KHCouple4517 ! Thanks for joining the community and starting to share your story with us. I'm hoping my KH might join someday - perhaps you'll be an inspiration to her.
     
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    #11 henry58, Dec 27, 2018
    Welcome and love Your story.
     
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    #12 KHCouple4517, Dec 27, 2018
    I don't know. I would say I was always ''open".To it, but never really heard or thought about it before.
    But what helped me most was that my partner just mentioned it and let me decide everything on my own, instead of asking me about it over and over. :)
     
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    #13 KHCouple4517, Dec 27, 2018

    If you want me to speak to her about it, feel free to message me in private and I can sends you a personal message you can forward to your KH :)
     
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    #14 Junebug15, Dec 27, 2018
    Hello and welcome good luck
     
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    #15 KHCouple4517, Dec 27, 2018
    Thanks to all for the nice welcome :)
     
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    #16 sissy_connie, Dec 27, 2018
    welcome
     
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    #17 lockit, Dec 27, 2018
    Welcome to the Mansion.
     
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    #18 cshorts, Dec 27, 2018
    Thanks! I may take you up on that at some point. Right now I'm trying to follow the "be patient" advice widely given around here, letting her find her degree of interest in all things (male) chastity, and suggesting as little as I can unless she asks (i.e., I'm working on learning to undo my topping from the bottom tendencies!).
     
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    #19 filltee, Dec 29, 2018
    You will get some very excellent sane and useful advice from many of the ladies on here. You will also be offered some advice by some of the guys on here.... I would suggest checking at lot of that out with some of the ladies before acting upon it, some of the guys are a little preoccupied with how they would like things to be and offer their advice accordingly. You will learn to recognise that and those that are prone towards doing so.

    Welcome to the Mansion.
     
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    #20 Chaste J., Dec 29, 2018
    Agree with that I must say! Us blokes don't know what's good for us or what we really want (need). The Ladies know best and after all we generally bring up the idea of chastity with our better halves. We convince them to give it try and extol all the virtues of chastity and the gains to be had for our partners. Then the whining starts. Nothing wrong with communicating with each other in fact it's very important to do so but in the end it's all up to the Lady. We should move at her pace and respect her wishes. As Mrs Chaste says "it's all about me now". That is after all what it's about! It can certainly add a whole new dimension to a relationship and provide so much pleasure for you both. I personally enjoy nothing more than watching Mrs Chaste orgasm whilst I'm left still "gagging for it". Plenty of teasing (if you wish) keeps it interesting and fun. Enjoy!
     
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    #21 Panda2010, Dec 30, 2018
    Hi @KHCouple4517
    Welcome to CM. Great that you have now joined under your own account. There are a number of Keyholders on this site. Some are very experienced. And some are just finding their way - just as you are.

    People who are introduced to this chastity stuff don't have too many like-minded people to turn to within their own circle of friends. This is where Chastity Mansion comes into it's own.

    There are a range of different experiences that you will encounter on this site. Some of those you might run 1000 miles from. But, some you might say 'hang on, that sounds like it could be fun'. Please talk to the other keyholders on here. Not everything is for you. But by talking to the great wives/girlfriends/keyholders on this site you can get a perspective on what aspects of this you might like to pursue.

    Take it slowly. Communicate with your partner. And, as always in life, only do it if it feels right for you. If it doesn't feel right for you, please talk to your partner.

    Good luck with your adventure.
     
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    #22 Clotho_ulloo, Dec 30, 2018
    Welcome!
    It took me a bit to come around myself... but, the last few years my husband and I (Mr. Toots:p) have really grown to enjoy this lifestyle! A REAL game changer to our marriage, life and over joy and happiness! Welcome and congrats!
     
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    #23 boi paul, Dec 30, 2018
    Ma.am so glad you found your way and welcome to the group.
     
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    #24 Sissycaitlin77, Jan 3, 2019
    Hello and welcome to chastity mansion hope you will enjoy with your partner ma'ma and your flr relationship will grow and get better. but most of all have fun here and welcome.!!!
     
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    #25 manintyres, Jan 3, 2019
    A very warm welcome
     
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