Hi everyone, been a member quite sometime and, well lurked a little (sorry), but finally I have bought a trainer V.3 nano in black. Took a bit of effort to squeeze into but at the moment comfy, hopefully stay that way. My wife (is vanilla but oh so sexy and my life) does not know, may well introduce it to her later, but want to get used to it myself first. I have had the cage on for 3-4 hours and been reading up on chastity and stories, but I don't seem to be building any, I think I'm correct in saying, horniness? Is this normal or does it take considerably more time for it to kick in, I am leaking more (way more) than normal? I ask because it's all new to me and from what I've seen on this site (far better than any other chstity site, I've found) you all appear very knowledgeable? Any advice, true accounts or stories would be great, thankyou in advance and I will gladly offer any more info if required, thanks mansion members. Kind regard Stockin
Welcome. Glad you decided to jump in and not just look from outside. I would hazard a guess, that the effect you want will take more than a few hours. So just keep trying. Leaking does suggest it is starting to work. Any way, good luck and hope you enjoy being part of our community.
Hello and welcome. Each person is different in when they begin to feel the effects of being in chastity. It’s probably a good idea to make sure it’s what you really want first because once your wife is on board, you may lose any say in how long you’re caged - and that’s when the fun really begins You should also consider that she may want no part of a chastity lifestyle. Again, each person is different. You’ll only know through open and honest communication. Good luck.