I knew nothing about chastity until about 6 months ago. Didn’t even know it was a thing. My boyfriend of 6 months (at the time) finally felt comfortable enough to share his kink (as we refer to it) with me. At this point, I don’t even remember how the whole conversation went. I just remember that he told me he liked wearing a cage as a part of his interest in chastity. I kept an open mind, asked probably a ton of questions and then told him I wanted to be involved in it with him. Even though I knew nothing about it, I wanted to support him and his desires. I also found it exciting and quite the turn on. From that point on, he started wearing the cage around me and we embraced it but i would say it was intermittent and somewhat in the beginning stages (in terms of us engaging in it as a couple, instead of just him on his own). We would do it for a few days and then he would take it off and we’d both go about our days. He was left to his own devices and to do as he pleased, if you know what I mean. I didn’t know enough about it to be able to embrace it fully at that point. That was until I was introduced to this site. It changed everything. It gave me all kinds of ideas, knowledge and insight about the world of chastity, and now we are able to fully embrace it. I am now just as into it as he is. He’s always said I have a bit of a dominant personality so he says I fill the key holder roll well. He now wears his cage all the time unless I allow him out or to take it off, and he’s not to play with himself with the cage on. We’re both really enjoying the fun, sexy and intimate nature of it. He’s got a new cage coming. A purple one, cos that’s my favourite colour. Looking forward to learning more, exploring more and enjoying together.
Welcome, and glad you have found the site helpful. Hope you'll get Verified and share the keyholder's perspective with us.
I'll just add my congratulations and welcome as well. This really is a great place to learn and play so I'm sure you'll both have lots of fun. Sounds like he's a very lucky man !
Welcome. Embrace the incredible gift that he has given you. As you become more comfortable with having him lockedand taken control of his pleasures I’m positive that you’ll never want to go back to having a boyfriend being able to play with himself when He wants. Chastity has changed our life for the better and we will never go back to the time when I wasn’t locked and under my Lovely Wives control. Please continue to post your story as it develops.
I certainly agree with everything Mash2214 says! Mrs Chaste has told me that she wouldn't want me unlocked now! It's amazing how much enjoyment you can both have without him having an orgasm!