Hello to everyone, I'm not speaking or writing flawless english, my native language is german (mainly swiss german ) short about me -happy married to a wonderful women, two kids, from switzerland I'm new to chastity lifestyle in a vanilla relationship. I introduced the chastity to my wife to get focus back to her and to get rid of a few bad habits. We do not wan't any FLR or Cuckold stuff, just for us we do the chastity lifestyle. Here to come across other vanilla cuples, to share experiences and doubts.
Welcome. My wife and I are relatively new to this as well. Every ralationship is different. It doesn’t matter what everyone one is in to or not into. All that matters is what you and your partner agree on and what makes both parties happy.
My wife has since the kids not anymore such a strong libido like before. Mine is still high (if i could i would everyday), that was the case why i mastrubated once or more a day. We do shibari and kinbaku since 10years, i`m in this since almost 25years. I like the part as rigger as well as bunny. But we do it with ligth and comfy clothes, yes its arousing but it leads not all the time to sex, it's the intimate power exchange that we produce with it. Maybe 15-20years ago on an exibition i came in contact with male chastity, since then it never got really out of my mind. At this time i tried it but i did not search any informatilns about and how to get used to it. Now with my wonderful scorceress i had a long and very open minded discussion. I explained her why i want to be held in chastity. She first was not really exicted about this, butjon the otherhand she was deeply shocked about my mastrubation habit. The end of our discussion was the question: do you have cage here? I replied yes, she told me to wear it. I put it on in front of her. ( i was direct aroused and horny like hell i never ever was like this before) she looked at it, smiled at me and said a bit harsh " gimme the keys" So we sat on our bed an discussed a our rules. As i'm not used to wear a cage we are still in our acclimatization phase. At the moment i wear it fron wakeup to get to sleep. In the next days i have to sleep with it, our (or my) goal is to get it 24/7.
First welcome to CM. This post sounds very promising for you. To have a wife/partner willing to "play" the chastity game with you is incredible. My wife has absolutely no interest in it. I was super lucky to find my Mistress here. @MistressS now owns me and has control over my masturbation habit. Her rules to be owned by her has taken me on a path I would have never gone down on my own. It has however opened my mind to a whole new erotic play. I have been so turned on at each step of my journey into feminization. There is a plethora of ideas and like minded people here that will help and encourage you as you get deeper into your chastity journey.