New here and also new to the lifestyle!

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    I was first put in Chasity 10/12/23. So still very new to us. Can’t remember who’s idea it was first but it was something talked about because of a book she had read. I know it’s only been just under 6 months but the results have been positive. While it does keep things fun and interesting it can also be frustrating. I had formally been what you consider the leader in our marriage but in all reality she was truly the reason we are and have been together 18 years. We decided to do a roll change and honestly although it was difficult to accept at first it’s really improved our marriage in a fast and positive manner. I am still the tough guy and protector on the outside but our personal life has taken quite the turn in the opposite way. She is a much more confident, happy and exiting person. As for me we found a side I did not know existed. Chasity has found me a way to respect, cherish, love and serve my Queen in ways I should have done in years past. There is a lot less PIV in our relationship but much more romance. There is more sex now that never but different than before. More oral and toying for her. More pegging and spanking for me She is amazing! She has made it clear that she is happier than ever with Chasity lifestyle. She has also made it clear that we will not be returning to our previous marriage status. It’s actually getting more serious. I just had an apadravya piercing installed for a more secure lock up. I know there is a couple of devices out there but I was wondering what everyone else would recommend. She definitely wants something with a base ring because she likes her balls locked in place also! Please fill me in on your ideas. Photos are also welcome. Thanks
     
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    Hello and welcome. Good luck with it.

    The word is chastity by the way. Two Ts.
     
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    Hello and Welcome.
    And good luck in your new lifestyle.
     
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    Welcome to CM!
     
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    Welcome to the mansion and good luck.
     
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    Welcome. I hope you enjoy our community. Good luck.
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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