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Discussion in 'Introductions' started by Lexi James, Jul 21, 2022.

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    Hi all! New to the site, but not to chastity. I’ve been my husbands key holder for 3+ years now, but still have no idea what I’m doing sometimes. When I put him in chastity, it’s typically because he asks for it or I’m annoyed by his sex drive.
    This round he has only been locked for about two weeks with no ending in sight. He currently only gets released during ovulation or when desperately needed. He is very “sweet” and cuddly during chastity and that is not the norm from him. His current fixation is on sucking my nipples every morning. He says it’s a sweet time together, but I’d rather just cuddle.
    I’m mainly here to learn tips on how to be a better tease and keyholder, while forever being a loving wife.
    —Mrs. James
     
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    Welcome to our community. I hope you find it useful and entertaining. There are some very talented, experienced, and helpful keyholders here that maybe able to give the kind of advice you seek. Good luck and enjoy.
     
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    Welcome to CM!
     
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    You should contact the Moderator of CM, Mistress L-U-C-Y to get verified as a female and gain access to the Mistress-only forum. You can likely get more help there from a keyholder's viewpoint than from those of us on the other end of the whip, so to speak!

    Have fun with your journey and having control of your hubby. You are appreciated for being so open minded and caring for your husband. If more women in the world were like you and learn to realize the powers they posses, this world would be a much better place!
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Welcome to C:lock:M Madam.
    I hope you find what you are looking for here and have a long stay.
     
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    Hello and welcome. Good luck
     
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    Welcome.
    It’s great to see another keyholder in the Mansion.
     
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    Hi mrs james.. his lockup schedule was similiar to mine.. i only was unlocked during her fertile period for purely sex alone those years.. and relocked right after.. ok his penis still has some good use for you for the time being.. keep self masturbation out of the window.. that is for naughty boys.. not real men.
     
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    And this!!!
     
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    A warm welcome. This may well be the place you've been looking for :)
     
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    Welcome to our online community.
    I too suckle on my wife's nipples after wake up as it stays on my mind all day!

    You say that you unlock when desperately needed...is that your need or his? Most of us here would agree that only the keyholders has needs...your chaste husband doesn’t need to come, all though he may desperately want to come!

    If you want to build your power over him, then double or triple his previous lock up time making clear to him that he has to be in your good books for his next release...he wont want it but he surewill enjoy it!! As you'll be making his dream come true!

    Enjoy this place, most of us are friendly.
     
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    Welcome to the mansion
     
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    Welcome!

    Are you focused on practicing chastity, or heading toward a FLR?

    By the way, “desperately needed” is your source of power, and not a reason to be unlocked. THAT, is the secret to making chastity work in your favor.
     
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    Welcome to the Mansion
     
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