My wife brought up a topic that I needed to discuss with her and the fact that she remembered my comment was pure relationship gold. "You mentioned the last time I unlocked you that you wanted to go longer this time." It has taken me a while to work up to this but after a playtime that included a satin panty tease and edging that had me shaking, I asked her thoughts on locking me longer. Much longer. Our previous record was 5 weeks. "I'm glad you keep track of these things." <eye roll> I was thinking... <pause> <swallow> 12 weeks. <laughing> "That's not up to me. Can you go that long?! Do you mean just locked up or what?" No orgasm. Teasing needs to be part of this, maybe 1-2 times a week. You decide what you want to do or if you want to do it. "I'm not sure if you can make it." We can schedule a check-in every 30 days and decide if it needs to end or whether we can keep going. She laughed again and confessed how great I felt after the teasing session we just had and how I didn't want to be anywhere other than with her, right here, right now. "Well, that's a good thing and that makes me happy. Happy wife, happy life, am I right? I'm going to take a shower and you need to calm down so we can get you locked back up." Score! Now I'm terrified that I'm about to get what I asked for and this will be the longest I've gone since I hit puberty. November 1 will be the first opportunity for me to have an orgasm, that seems like a really long time away right now.
We tried 4 months once and I barely made it. We go 1-3 months now. I never know how long it will be. Depends on my wife. I am not having those miserable post orgasm blues anymore, but it takes me a month to start feeling very horny again. I think we both prefer 1-2 months. My wife seems to want me to orgasm more than I do. She thinks it is funny and it stops me looking at her like a hungry man looks at a steak. Last time I had an orgasm after 1 month. The time before that was 2 months. Our wedding anniversary is in almost 3 months so I have no idea of what she will do.