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    As a gay dude, I appreciate that :)
     
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    Glad to see a discussion like this handled civilly. I personally am not interested in The Topics Not To Be Mentioned on This Subforum, but they never bothered me, except on rare occasions when somebody would state, assume, or imply that their way is the only way (which is an unhelpful color of any opinion on the topic IMO). Even then, I'd just skip over and move along.

    But, if there's any chance the tone of discussion on the other subfora is warding off or intimidating potential members, particularly women, then I'm all for it, and I will observe with interest.
     
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    Little overboard. There are multiple places for non-cis gendered, feminization, Goddess worship, Trans, etc. on this site. Some folks are not into that. That doesn't mean that those folks are not welcome, it just means that it's not for all. Just as what you are looking for is not for all. We are all under the umbrella of 'Male Chastity, there are many subjects of it. This whole thread was simply to give those not into non-cis, feminization, etc a place to talk.
    That does not mean there is anything wrong with any subsect, just that chastity is something that many people can benefit from. 'All thumbs are finger, not all fingers are thumbs'.
     
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    Personally, I would to thank you Lucy. You took the time to give a place that most wouldn't give the effort for. Thank you for you continued moderation and thank you for listening to those who use the site.
    CM is a wonderful site that all should feel welcome to. It should have sections for all different interests in the lifestyle and Lucy is doing an amazing job!
     
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    @L-u-c-y Thank you for this site, and thanks for setting this forum up!
     
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    I’m confused. I’ve probably come to the wrong thread…
    I was looking for the sissification without chastity. Can someone point me in that direction.
    My wife’s locked me up way too long but never asks me to wear her panties… I need to find out how to get her into that!
    All I can find is lots of chastity related stuff and some canasta. We don’t even play canasta but I now know that it’s a thing and I’ll be trying that next.
     
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    If we go back to the origin of this topic, it was about wives or girlfriends reading and being turned off by certain topics. Based on my own wife/keyholder, I'm going to take a stab at what us guys complaining about the above are really looking for. Our wives don't want to be married to emasculated men. They want their husbands to be, well, manly. So the tightrope we have to walk to enjoy our kink is making sure our wives are comfortable letting their dom side out without worrying about turning their husbands into someone they don't want to be married to. We already got past the stigma of "she keeps her husband's balls in her purse" but it would be nice for them to see other couples who incorporate chastity and femdom into an otherwise traditional marriage.

    What I want is a place where the woman in this chastity caption feels at home and can get new ideas of how to have fun
    : [​IMG]
     
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    Thank you for creating this forum.
    Hopefully the offended ones will move on in short order.
    This could be a great sub-platform for talk about all kinds of kinky chastity stuff without the lingering fear of it being sideswiped by sissy talk.
    For whom this forum was created wish to offend no- one.
    The opportunity to create content for this niche forum should be excellent.
    Where shall it begin?
     
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    A couples forum without the drama and over exaggerated stories.
     
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    sub-platform :D I see what you did there
     
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    Thank you Lucy. Staylocked you are my hero. You write for many of us.
     
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    I don't think it means some people can't post here, or have something of value to contribute, it just means the conversation can focus on a particular aspect of chastity. So far we are having some great discussions. Thank you @L-u-c-y
     
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    #39 Rich Haney, Oct 16, 2022
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    How about Macho Male led relationships. Real men remaining celebit while denying female partner sex . Female partner reduces to slave status !
    For me , I don't get it , but this is CM ,and what's good for the goose may be good for the gander ..Myself I love the humiliation of being controlled View attachment 52856 ed by a strict , cruel Domanatrix .

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    You're not taking it in your hand are you @Tom Allen ?
     
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    Not that I could do anything, since it's always encased in a stainless steel tube.
     
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    ^ Absolutely Spot-on :+1:

    I’d love to ask my wife to have a look on here, I’d have to caviat that there lots of things that others are into, but I’m not. Bondage, latex (etc) can be understood and accept… but thinking that the ultimate destination of chastity is ‘forced’/desired feminisation and it would be game-over.

    What about “Alpha Male Chasity”?
     
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    I did not want to see that.

    If you force your fetish onto people again you will receive a 2 week ban.
     
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    Bravo
     
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    How very interesting it is to witness the lowest of the low taking stabs at this thread.
    It reminds me of the same twisted individuals taking stabs at societal norms. We have seen this explosion since woke/gender/lgbtq/blm has been rolled out.
    Just proves a point doesn't it.
    They are not happy.
     
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    I really like the new sub-forum idea and appreciate @L-u-c-y implementing it.

    There are many topics discussed on the forum that I may not participate in. However, I feel I have become much more tolerant and much less likely to judge after chatting with people who do. I am very thankful for their acquaintance.
     
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    Thanks! I feel the same.
     
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    Dsame.

    That's not what he said. There is literally every other thread in which those things can be discussed. The homosexual/transsexual community is well-represented on here. Some of just don't identify as such and would like a space that we can better relate to.
     
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    I am a recent discoverer of MC and I just joined here a few months ago. I quickly realized this was a place I found depressing. It seemed every topic eventually became as OP said- revolving around sissy/crossdressing/cuckholding. I started out active on the site but found myself turned off by the topics and the idea of MC in general if this is where is seems to always lead. I would never even mention this site to my wife because she would be so turned off with those conversations. I have nothing against those who love the concept, that's the wonderful world of kink- find what you like and enjoy. It just became an overriding theme.

    I am also not into the idea of long term or permanent denial but I guess that comes with the turf. I like the idea of my wife being in control but us still having an active sex life with regular PIV and orgasms by both (something both of us want). Perhaps we will someday have a thread pinned for discussions relating to active sex lives (where the guy gets off) interlaced within MC.

    It was reassuring to see other people had the same viewpoint. Thank you Lucy for starting this forum- I'm looking forward to seeing how it evolves.
     
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    I feel the same. I stopped coming here for about six months for the same reasons.
     
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