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    Thank you, spelling and time Grammer has always killed the mood. I do try though to get it corrected.
     
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    If Lady C's passion is correct spelling, pronunciation and grammar, then she has already weeded out a good portion of men today. Lucky her and a well done job.:+1:
     
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    I really appreciate all the support from the members of this site. Will continue to keep everyone up-to-date
     
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    Show her that you mean it. Takes some for them to realize that you crave her approval. My wife loves that I show her how much I love her after all these years. She is willing to go along because for once in her life she is adored.
     
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    That is true thanks
     
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    I don't know if any has the same issue as I do to be able to sleep I have to be touching my KEYHOLDER in some way it relaxes me enough to sleep.
     
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    Like it is said in here alot be careful what you wish for. I love my KEYHOLDER/ WIFE with entire heart. I woukd do anything for her. I convinced her to hold the keys and she would be in charge when she wanted sex I would be ready no masterbating between. While I was laying in bed with my 5 am wake up up morning wood the only one I get now I realized my KH in the 26 years we have been together i think she has came to me for sex twice. The rest of the times I started it. I have a feeling I better stay used to this device being on. There must be different moods you go through wearing chastity depending upon your hormones. This morning I think it finally feels real and the weight of my decision has finally hit me. It is not like this will end any time soon. I do know next week Tuesday I will be unlocked for a Dr appointment. After that it gets extremely extended my guess.
    On a happier note at least it is talked about more. During the weekend when she does not work is my best chance. I am currently not working due to a injury. My everything ♥ works on average 6 days a week. This for some reason has made it easier to help her before I woukd not do laundry clean dishes men don't do that stuff is how I was brought up there job was firewood work in garage. I dont know if it is a stronger desire to make her happy or have your dick under key takes your manhood away. But doing household stuff is satisfying just so she can sit down in her chair after work. Yes I cook supper wash and fold all the cloths do the dishes. I don't feel like i have become a sissy i just want and need her approval more then ever it is like a drug. Do you know i have not looked at porn in weeks normally it was several times daily. I went from 2 to 3 ejaculations a day to 0 for a month.
    I do have one concern if and when she decides she wants it my only concern is when it comes out after say months in confinement will it work. So if any readers has insight on that i woukd take answers. I guess if it don't after not having anything for that long why woukd I need it i now my tongue and fingers work. I have never had her orgasm while my dick was in her never could last long enough i could see it would be getting her going then i would pop my load. But by tougue and fingers have made her have multiple at a go. She thinks something is possibly wrong why she has such a low sex drive. Since I have been locked i have come to realize it not her it is my fault for have such a small penis and not able to satisfy her. On my last break for a day o measured my self flaccid I am 2 " hard 6". When I was in my teen age years and measured I was 7". Now I am 48 in chastity already lost and inch since I was 18. What will happen in the next 10 years to it in lock up guess I will find out.

    My new device that is smaller than current on has shipped. So excited for the new one only thing that will be seen of cock is the head.
     
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    Inside of sitting up and watching TV I have been going to bed with my wife athe same time. It has been a long time since I watch my wife change into her nite clothes she is so sexy and in the morning I am waking up to watch her get dressed god I love my WIFE/KEYHOLDER I love the chastity life.
    People talk on post all the time about PIV EDGING DENIAL we have not done any my KH has not even seen my cage but I dont care it is there when she wants it. We did it 6 weeks ago so my guess other than next week Tuesday I will have it on for a year glad to do it to for my love.
     
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    I just ask my KEYHOLDER if I could free my self for the nite and she pulled a necklace off with the key i instantly got hard i really think she.is enjoying the control and being more helpful around the house.
     
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    Hi darlydixon.
    Love reading your thread as I rate myself as a newbie and haven't done more than 3 days straight caged. ( after a month off I am now into day 2 locked again) and am set to go stay with my girlfriend/kh tomoz for a few days I know I will be told to unlock on the first day there. Your last post saddens me abit as u said u asked to be unlocked and your kh just gave u the key, this is the same problem I have. Whilst my kh loves the idea of me being locked and wearing the key she gives me the key way to easy
     
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    Yes I asked because of needing to adjust and a free nite you need to have those to for health down there. I have only been locked a month myself minus like 3 days. Do what your KH asks and then some and you will love the results. Like last nite for me I found out my wife wants toys and I had the best nits sex it 20 years and her penis never entered her pussy.
     
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    It is still blowing my mind on what happened last nite NO PIV my KEYHOLDER telling and helping with fingers on herself then sitting on my face and pushing so hard I could not take a breath it was the best sex I ever had god I love chastity. KEYHOLDERS unit got hard while we laid and talked it sayed hard for an hour after we were done I have never had a hardon like that. Usually after PIV it goes limp and I fall asleep this was a completely different feeling I am still riding the high
     
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    Honestly I have learned when cage.os removed for the nite and a day it takes a couple hours to get back in the grove. The other thinf I thought I felt like on a high after the nite with my WIFE/KEYHOLDER but the next day I feel the drop. I am going to talk to her on the next fun time about leaving me locked and giving her all. I don't like losing that feeling of complete adoration for my love. It is coming back but. I said on another post about letting my wife have other lovers and not sure if I could do it but if it was what she really wanted I really think I would let her do it in my heart I would now she loves me and would always come back to me. It is really cool what this site can bring out of a person.
     
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    nothin new to post just living the dream loving my WIFE/KEYHOLDER
     
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    Still locked up will have to be freed Tuesday morning for Dr visit then locked bat up minute the dr appointment is done. Honestly I don't care if the useless tool ever gets used again unless the KEYHOLDER wants i know one thing for sure the only main rule is no porn and no masterbating even when we have sex my KEYHOLDER is the only hand that will touch her uncaged cock. She said it adamantly that is a hard rule not to break that i never touch her penis again. If i like her touching it on occasion.
     
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    Today I can't get the device out of my mind it. Not in a sexual way bit in more of sensation. For some reason it is like the head of the penis has a vibrator in it about every couple seconds it vibrates on sife cage.it is a funny feeling have felt it before but not for this long. It is weird and o am sure I am not explaing it well enough wondering if anyone else gets it.
     
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    My KEYHOLDER wants us to shop for some toys she did not say on who. I just hope I get to use on her live to hear her moan. When she pushes against yours fingers or grabs the back you head and pulls you in till you can't breathe then you know you found the spot.
     
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    I had to go to the doctor today for a check up my KEYHOLDER gave me the key so I could unlock I have been unlocked for 5hrs everytime I touch her dick to get cage back on it gets hard really fast does that happen to anyone else.
     
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    Well it is a new day now that the doctors appointment is done we ewill see when the next unlock will be. I can't even guess. If it would be like before lockup it would be for a year or more. Since lockup a month with no PIV but sex lasted twice as long and 5times hotter. During PIV sex I could only last a minute. The penis in the warm hole.

    I don't know about the rest but my KEYHOLDER carries her key to work and everywhere. Also I read a lot of post where most of you know we're your second key is I am not that lucky. Since handing them over have not seen both keys.

    I think my KEYHOLDER loves the idea of no more masterbation. I did it way to much and watched porn to much. That brings up another point why would you watch porn while caged can't do anything about it and it makes cage uncomfortable. I have read some say to keep them horny if it takes more than the cage and denial to stay horny you probably have dealer issues.

    JUST WANT TO SAY LOVE MY KEYHOLDER AND THIS LIFE
     
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    I am laying here in bed I just realized that I have only been locked for 9 days minus 5 hours. But it seems a lot longer. I am not sure why this time being in this device seems longer than the first month. I still feel the total commitment to my wife and why I am doing this. But the useless unit is sending messages for the last couple days it wants free it wants to blow like mount Saint Helens. I had the feeling the first time but it is amped up this time around. It may sound like I am complaing but that is far from the truth I am loving the mental change in me my wife has noticed and said I don't even yell at our kids like I did. After the DR appointment I put the cage back on and then took the keys to my love she said Thankypu. She has told me she like s the changes in me and I would have to agree. I don't see this end for years.
     
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    It depends. After a long period of chastity, when my wife has unlocked me for PIV anything can happen. Once I came within 5 seconds of entering her, she saw the funny side and we both ended up helpless from laughing. Other times I have the exact opposite, I keep on going giving her multiple orgasms but I never seem to be able to get there - so she ends up with a big smile and I don't get the post-orgasm 'downer' (so not so bad).
    The thing is, everyone is going to react differently on different days, don't worry about it, just enjoy whatever happens. Chastity in itself does no harm to the body, it might take a couple of attempts after a long period of abstinance but everything will return to normal. So yes, it works, just don't try predicting how, or expect to win the first race from the starting block!
     
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    I really envy you and your wife's responses. I wish mine would follow and accept it. We've been together 17 years. Maybe I can wait for another 9-10 years. Hopeful!
    BTW, I've been helping with chores around the house for ages. She is the main cook. The rest I normally take care of.
     
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    I did not do anything around the house atleast not very much and when I did it I would not do it right. Not playing with myself no porn I think has made me a better listener to her I am truly interested in her day when she comes home. Give them time and space the rest will follow. Don't mention the device she holds the key if she wants it she can say it. Honestly most of all of it is crap just love her unconditional and it will work.
     
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    #124 Guest 2684, Jul 10, 2020
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    Just doing an update nothin new to report. The KEYHOLDER is working extra hours this week so she is tired. Which means no play which is fine. Still locked their is no time schedule on or locks. They are when she wants I come free. Which can be a little daunting not know but I think that is also the excitement of it all to. Also I just realized almost six weeks under lock and key. Who would have thought giving your penis/orgasms up to some else's control would be such a freeing event. :):lockkey: Happily locked for ever
     
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    Sad excuse for a hardon
     
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