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    Ordered a new one with a bigger ring if I do the string I am bigger in girth than the 50mm so I ordered a 57mm but with a smaller in length cage. By the time it arrives the sore area I hope is healed. Don't like not being lockup feels weird. Miss the wait. Not planing on cheating still NO ORGASM unless wife insists. The short time I have been doing this it has helped me contol the urge to masterbate and watch porn. So far so good.
     

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    I have noticed a change no that I have been unlocked since Wednesday afternoon I was pretty much locked for a month. I don't seem to get hard as fast as I did and not last as long. I don't seem to have the urge to wank and watch porn. I think th device and this site mostly the device I suppose.
     
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    I have to get something off my chest my current device can be uncomfortable. When I recieved the device it came with 3 keys. I gave my KEYHOLDER 2 of them and kept the other for myself. Well yesterday I used the key to remove the device due to a pain issue. Here is the problem I did not tell her. Them this morning she starts throwing hints of having something special planned for our alone time. My KEYHOLDER is not the best hider so I found weree she had move put the keys. She is getting better the keys were gone so I truly have no idea were they are. That being said I put the device on this morn as fast as I could took my pliers and broke the key. So I learned my lesson and now she is in total control for the first time in my life.
     
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    It is my 23 anniversary today but this one is special I have never felt this close to her. Maybe when we started dating. It has been quite a few years since she has spent this much time curled upto me. This device has caused me to listen more and help her more. It is just amazing what a little piece of metal can do to your life. Giving your sexual life to someone else gives you so much mental freedom
     
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    Like I said earlier my wife/KH hinted maybe fooling around tonight. But she was in pain all day due to her foot which made the rest of her sore. So I get what I deserve laying in bed writing to this thread. It really helps to take away the physical stress of wearing a device. It doesn't matter if people read this or not it helps me.
     
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    Darlydixon,

    First of all, CONGRATULATIONS on your 23rd Anniversary. Sorry this is a day late. This coming Saturday, July 4, will be our 29th Anniversary.

    I agree that we have not felt THIS connected for a long time, perhaps since we were first married, and maybe even before that. Heck, in some ways, we have NEVER been as close as we are now. She has said numerous times "I wish I had found out about this (FLR) YEARS ago." . We've done the chastity thing off and on for many years, but this time it really seems to have taken on new meaning for her, and therefore, for me, too. I am VERY LUCKY to have her as my Keyholding, Loving Goddess!

    As I mentioned in another post, my Holy Trainers each came with 2 keys, but over the years I have given one to her and kept one accessible to me "just in case". Well, her keys have apparently "disappeared" (or so she says....it really doesn't matter to me ), so she holds the one and only key to my device. It IS a very different feeling knowing that you have given complete control to your Keyholder and have to seek her approval for its removal. (Hey...that rhymes! LOL) Today is day 80 in this lockup and I've only been out of it for what I call "deep cleaning" about once per week or so, and then it goes right back on. And no orgasms of any kind during that period. But she HAS teased the HECK out of me each and every day!!! I'm so lucky!

    Neither of us have worn our wedding rings for years. Mine had an unusual, slightly comical demise about 20 years ago (well, if you can call the loss of a $1200 ring comical), and her rings don't fit her anymore. We are now making plans to have hers reset and mine replaced for next year's big 30th Anniversary. But until then, I purchased an inexpensive replacement for me and not quite so inexpensive replacements for her engagement & wedding rings. Very similar to her actual rings, but sized larger and cubic zirconia instead of the real deal. These were a bit pricey for CZ, but She's worth it and they look amazing!!! So this Saturday, we're going to start wearing our rings together again. for the first time since mine was lost.

    I also agree that writing can be great therapy, even if no one reads it. But trust me, your posts WILL HELP others who have chosen this path, or are thinking about choosing this path. It's always great to hear real world experience.

    Again, Happy Anniversary and continued Good Luck to you and your Lovely Wife & Keyholder as you progress on this new journey together.

    ~subrick
     
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    Thankyou and congratulations on yours upcoming.
    It is amazing I was have all kinds of fitting issues until I cut my key and she has the only other two.. i don't want to ask her to bring it up want her on her own to bring it up.
     
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    I just realized that other than a day here and there I will have on full month under lock. Again I am a sap but the last three days have been the hottest. God I love this life..
     
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    [/I wrote to when you are ready ask me and I will show you the device.

    She found and read letter when I was in the shower when I came to bed she has said nothing. What do you think that means[/QUOTE]

    In my opinion, thought process, reading your post and noticed "when you are ready", by her not saying anything could mean she is not ready. Some need time to adjust, to feel comfortable, I'm sure it took time for you to do this, work up the curage and feel comfortable with your discussion, out of love and respect give her that time as well. If she is new to this, asking her to answer that same day or night isn't fair to her. After a bit of time and nothing come from her about it then ask her during an appropriate time. In my opinion.
     
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    In my opinion, thought process, reading your post and noticed "when you are ready", by her not saying anything could mean she is not ready. Some need time to adjust, to feel comfortable, I'm sure it took time for you to do this, work up the curage and feel comfortable with your discussion, out of love and respect give her that time as well. If she is new to this, asking her to answer that same day or night isn't fair to her. After a bit of time and nothing come from her about it then ask her during an appropriate time. In my opinion.[/QUOTE]
    Thank you for your response. My lovely KEYHOLDER is being amazing it has taken her a month but this last week she has truly hidden the keys. Like I said earlier I cut up the third key my key. She is being more receptive then I thought she would be. This device has brought a huge change in our life. Not living like a FLR but living as she is my everything.
     
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    Congratulations! and hopefully believe, it will blossom even more beautiful for her and you.
     
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    I truly do
     
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    Honestly I don't think it can het any better it is amazing now. I have been able to touch and kiss her more in the last month then I have in the last year.
     
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    The most possible thought for me is that now you can think "clearly" and be move attentive to her the cage subconsciously removes male programming. You can now feely act and enjoy, everything she is to you and you to her. No move second brain controlling your action so to speak. In some ways.
     
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    Laying here in bed next to my beautiful WIFE I am getting a rush like what I woukd imagine drugs would feel like. It is hard to explain it is a feeling of elation like just had the best sex you could imagine and all I did was rub her back. I can imagine what it will be like when we actually have some fun. I live and love for her she is my Goddess.
     
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    At that is beautiful love, something every man/women/ or other should aim for in a any relationship. Congratulations, happy for you and her.
     
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    Happy Anniversary I just passed my 34 year anniversary
     
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    For some reason I am a leaking machine today everytime I turn around KH'S penis is getting hard. It can slow down with that at any time. Am noticing the change when I'm home it is nice to give the boys some freedom to swing around in the breeze.
     
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    Well nothing exciting to report. I think I have finally crested the 24/7 wear with my device. Today marks on month since I went into 24/7 wear other than a couple of day it has stayed on. Like I said in a earlier post Saturday I put the device on and cut my key in half. I have not seen the other two keys since I told my wife to hide them. AS IT HAS BEEN SAID ON THIS GROUP SEVERAL TIME BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR. As far as unlocking not talk about that but with my keyholders sex drive I am in it for the long hall. 6 weeks ago when we had sex last i have been thinking that was not a because she was horny it was a because I pushed. In a way it scares me to think how long it will be with no push. But I chose this to help with our marriage not really i chose this to be fair to her and true. I uave not watched porn or masterbated. So it is a win. So instead of me pushing for sex I put the ball in her court she is in charge of both sex drives. I no for a fact that it on her mind alot more. Now she cuddles up which is new and she lets me touch her more so life is great live my KH/WIFE. Here are two photos after a month under key. Oh yeah next week I will be out for atleast part of a day due to yearly check-up.
     
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    today I brought it up to the wife/KH it has been one month since I gave her the keys all she did was smile no words just smile what does everyone think that means. Hope someone has some ideas. Thank you for reading
     
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    A smile is a smile, she is enjoying it. But also she could be psyking ( if miss spelled sorry) you out for fun
     
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    Psyche.... and misspelled (past tense / past participle),

    Beware, woman, especially those with a caged man, are liable to do anything. Thought I'd better restrain my comment so as not to get the league of Mistress and Keyholders too upset.
     
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    Did I mention that Lady C passions is correct spelling, pronunciation and grammar. Talk about picky.
     
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