New FLR

Thank you all for your comments. I use all the good info I get. I am completely happy were we are currently at. I don't watch porn and wackoff 2 to 3 times a day. My wife and I talk way more than we did. She even rolls up to me at nite. I love it it would not have to go any further and it would be a success but when it does that will be great. I can tell a little difference in her to the leader is showing up in our normal lives little by little.

 

After being in this cage for a full week I have noticed.
In the beginning my erections were strong and long tear the cage in half and often.
Now a week later not as often not as long or hard.
Is that normal and will it continue to progress less and less. Just curious

 

After being in this cage for a full week I have noticed.
In the beginning my erections were strong and long tear the cage in half and often.
Now a week later not as often not as long or hard.
Is that normal and will it continue to progress less and less. Just curious.
Also I really appreciate this site I think I use the thread as a sexual tension relief. Thanks again

 

Thhankyou will the erections continue down the less path sorry just strange new feeling

 

I did get an order from my KH. I told her I posted some pictures to get ideas and it's kinda fun to be honest. After telling her she put her foot down and said no more no one other than her needs to see my tool or anything short of complete coverage. It is hers and she is not sharing.

 

Wanted to add last night was the first full nite sleep in one week not one erection all nite it was great nights sleep hope that continues

 

Nothing exciting to report had to remove device dis to some chafing. Get that cleaned up device will be back on. Still doing my best to not masterbate. Much harder when you have access. Will still keep up posting on events

 

Since I can't be lock until I heal my thoughts about playing with it would not say out of my head so I tied the cage on. And made it useless again.

 

Did not work couple more days and scrotum will be well try again. Onward and upward so far no playing with it wahoo

 

It is all healed KEYHOLDER had me locck it back up but we are keeping a close eye on it. Love being back in the cage. I can't explain it the since of mental freedom it gives you with your better half. I don't know if it is the device or just the the feee dom of your mind from sex. But it really seem to help the spiritual relationship with your love.

 

Last nite was a good nite my KH decided she should snuggle/lay on top of me all nite. After a 5 day break it is like starting over again wood keeps you up all nite great feeling. Like I said earlier the device is freedom for the mind.i don't want the sissy life or something like that i just want my wife to express her feelings and take a little or charge in the bedroom.

 

Getting use to the cage again. It is a little easier this time around. Still no playing from the wife just Cuddling and talking more deeply. Getting everything I wanted out of it.

HOPE EVERYONE HAS A GREAT FATHERS DAY.

 

Life is good that is all I can say

 

Update my before taking the key was not a person that liked to cuddle. Now when we go to bed together at the same time which rarely happened before. Basically lays on top of me all nite. There has been not teasing no sex of any kind but alot of touching which makes up for it all. My wife does not have a high sex drive. We had sex last year once. To take the place I would masterbate 1 to 3 times a day. For the last month I have masterbated 1 to 2 times. In the last two weeks 0 well it is hard with the device. Even when I had to remove it due to the sore I still did not have the urge. The urge I had was to get the device back on. On one of wife and I conversations we discussed why the device. We talked she said it was not fair for me to be in this think with a much higher sex drive than hers. My answer was I will be ready when she is with no release just like her. This device has taught me how much I still love her after 23 years.

 

I am laying in bed giving the wife's genital some air after being in clothes all day. It has me thinking how much this has helped my relationship. It just blows my mind something so small can have such an impact on your life and relationship. The just writing blog has me straining in her cage. Losing control over your orgasm is just so liberating. My KEYHOLDER doesn't due what alot 9f others on here do. Honestly we don't talk about it much. We actually have sit in the living room and had the off and talked like we did twenty years ago. It is great.
I ordered and tead the book about being locked for two weeks to change your life. I personally think it would take longer to change entirely. When I no longer have a desire to watch porn then I would say that is a change. But on a good note it has been 2 weeks since I watched any. And longer since an orgasm. On July 10th it will be one month . I had it off a couple of days due to a tender spot. Have that fixed so. ONWARD AND UPWARD. I can't believe the change

 

When I gave the letter to my wife I had the keys in the envelope. I asked to be unlocked one day due to a sore area she told me location they were still on the envelope. After a while of know were the keys were i asked her to hide them to remove the easiness of knowing the location. Upon going to bed tonight I see it gone. Now I have no idea were the keys are and just with that move it has made me swell painfully in my cage LOVE IT.

 

Last nite was rough erection after erection. The wife moved in bed I would get hard if she hand brushed up against me I got an erection. Have not had a nite like that in awhile. Again writing this getting hard. Hope day and tonight will be better

 

It really just set in this morning. The device came with three keys I kept one and gave my wife the other two. This morning I destroyed mine. So this is the first time in a month I have no idea where the keys are i did not realize how much of a different feeling it would be. Someone else in total control. I am so used to being the one in charge even at my job. My heart is pounding out of my chest. I have a feeling my wife's tool will be hard all day. So excited